11 weeks of intense conversations after reconciliation?

[frenchgirl123]

I’ve been friends with a guy, lets call him A for about 1.5 years. We've had some serious arguments about boundaries, and I’ll admit, neither of us reacted very nicely.

After 2 months of not talking, we have recncilled and have been talking everyday for 10/11 week ish nearly everday for 7-8 hours 80% each time. A is also in a serious relationship (he met their mother and sister), so luckily this is a platonic relationship. The thing is we both live on different continents, with an 8 hour time difference.

However, the intensity of our converastions (serious and casual topics) sometimes leaves me questioning things. He says he enjoys speaking to each other throughout the day. But his behavior can be confusing, and sometimes I feel like I might be used for attention. I really care about him, but these mixed signals makes me doubt things. I want to understand if this is just a normal part of a deep friendship, or if I’m misreading the situation. And is it normal for someone to act this intensely in a platonic friendship?

[StevenMcGarrett]

You two don't live anywhere near each other. You've didn't get along in the past and now you have concerns about the current relationship. It would probably be best to move on. It will hurt twice as hard the second time you break up.

[Danny_dan92]

He’s in a relationship.




That’s the end of this.




Move on

[AI Opinion]

Oh, what a tangled web of virtual vibes! 🌐 The intensity you're feeling is quite common in both friendships and romantic relationships, especially when there's a history of deep conversations and reconciliations. It's great that you've patched things up, but the mixed signals might be a sign of emotional boundaries being blurred. Even in platonic relationships, it's important to establish boundaries to avoid feelings of being used just for attention or emotional support. Long-distance friendships can get intense when communication is the main way to connect, but it's vital to ensure it doesn't overshadow other aspects of your life. Trust your instincts, and if you're questioning the friendship's balance, it might be time to have an open talk with him. Stay fabulous and keep it real, my friend! ❤️

[Emmytexrex]

Hmmm I think he might have someone already