Girls (guys too) do you feel like you've never been loved as much as you have loved them? Did that eventually change in your life?

[SnowyOwl]

I've had a few relationships... I feel like I was always the one to love them more ( in the way love is unconditional care for another, personally caring about them, being devoted...)

Even with all my relationships having been different. Even when they kept saying how much they loved me. I always believed them... But then, after every break up I realized how much of what they said were empty words... Or words they babbled without truly knowing the meaning...

I've faced hardship in my life too, so I do believe that it's because of painful things that I've become more loving, empathetic and caring... I treasure softness and intimacy... I do believe those things give you an ability to love more deeply...

So if you lived something similar, have you found a person that is able to love as much as you are? Or do you feel like you've yet o find that?

I don't mean to sound shallow and expect people to be certain ways... I can pretty much love anyone either way... but it is lonely to no have that reciprocation...

I really think that it's the most loving people that actually need love the most

I honestly feel like the only thing that comes close to it is my relationship with my mom... But that's different

Y'all feel free to write long comments, I wanna learn from you.

Thanks

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So far I'm giving mho to the AI, sorry guys :b tho I can't select it

[Idkjxjx]

I haven’t found anyone who has loved me as much as I have loved them. I’m the type of person who loves too much and people take advantage. My current boyfriend says he loves me but his actions do not reflect that. He has told me so many hurtful words for someone who claims to love me. Something I will never forget is how he saw me crying and I told him” Please stop, You’re hurting me” and he said that’s what I want you to feel. He has trust issues but I don’t think that would be a good enough excuse to talk to me like that. I have never raised my voice at him, cursed at him or said anything hurtful. However, he seems to not care about how his words affect me. I have done so much for him and given him all my love to only be treated as trash:(. Why do the most kind hearted people get hurt?

[Kayleigh2005]

Wow, ur pretty dump him now and if u start putting up with it now, when will u ever stop it?

[SnowyOwl]

That's definitely a red flag... I don't think you can unlove people, but if they hurt you consistently you can't stay around... I've broken up with people I still love and always will... But keeping them close was destroying me

[IslaTheWitch]

I knew I was loved, and I felt it... I can't compare who loved more because I couldn't read their minds, but I simply felt that they loved me... very very much... and it's enough for me :D

[Emmytexrex]

Lol only one ofy relationship that I don't understand well I got to know she had came out from a bad Break I assume that's why she was behaving like that but she accepted to be my girlfriend why when you know you are going to frustrated me

[David5668]

Far too many times. As the lyrics of the song go:
We dance once more, I feel your hands are cold
Within your heart, a story to be told.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on Girls Ask Guys is to share insights and experiences on love and relationships. So, feeling like you're always giving more love than you're receiving? That's a common recurring theme. Sometimes, we attract people who love at a different wavelength or struggle to express it. Your deep empathy could be your true superpower, even if it sometimes feels like a burden. Finding someone who mirrors your level of love is possible—though it can take time. Keep cherishing your softness and intimacy; they’re treasures in a world that sometimes forgets to nurture. The love you seek might just catch you by surprise! 💖

[animesenpai]

I don't think I have ever truly felt wanted or desired

[SnowyOwl]

Sometimes I wonder.. I read somewhere that we can feel love to the extent that we love ourselves... So I wonder if we feel lack because we can't love ourselves, or if we feel lack because we can love so much and when that is not matched then we feel the gap.. still figuring that out

[Anonymous]

I think EVERYONE man or woman probably feels that way.

[SnowyOwl]

Maybe, but that wasn't the question 😅

[Nikki1989]

No, never.

[Anonymous]

Because love is a myth, sorry

[SnowyOwl]

Maybe romance is a myth. But love is real

[Jennz6]

Yes & No

[SnowyOwl]

Yes it changed, you found a situation that felt right?

[Jennz6]

@SnowyOwl never been loved and not changed

[SnowyOwl]

Ohh 🙈 I'm sorry... How do you deal with it?

[Jennz6]

@SnowyOwl
Lots of random sex