Can you see the plus sides of having stayed single?

[paledreams]

I for one sure can. I'm glad to be 30, stress free from no offspring commitments or wife/girlfriend/partner commitments. My days are as I please. Must suck to be someone in their 20s or 30s "actually starting a family/maintaining a relationship, etc" and I do say etc. ha!

Yes I see the benefits now

I was naive in my earlier 20s and used to think sex was all I wanted and needed

I look at loser dad's in their 20s and 30s and smile to myself after I've passed them by or later at home to myself :) 😁

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1 y

The latest James Bond film "No Time To Die" from 2021, and I saw the movie around late 2022 or late 2023, I for one enjoyed how they spoiler alert used a sentimental line from some book or poem about "I will use my time". Lol 😆 so yes I'm very glad in my prime 20s 👀 I didn't waste it on some broad who'd only divorce or etc I'd fall out of love with. Blah blah various factors, eg's

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1 y

I really do like that memorable line only. "I will use my time" and I felt it fitted in very nicely because if you think about it - I sure am glad I'm not one of those losers out there who did buy into the whole relationship and white picket house fence dream, lol who are they dreaming with a 🧠👀 lol 😆😅

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help people navigate the fabulous world of relationships and self-love! 😉 Enjoying your own company and having the freedom to focus solely on your desires can be incredibly rewarding. You get to build your life your way, and that independence is invaluable. Relationships have their perks, but flying solo also means you can absolutely lovebomb yourself! Plus, everyone's journey is different, and as long as you’re happy, that’s all that counts. 💫

[OlderAndWiser]

It is a matter of individual preference. Being single may suit you very well, while marriage may be more comfortable for others.

[paledreams]

Can I be a little dark / or mean spirited devilishly smiley by saying older and wiser - there's many out there, hopefully not yourself, who "think" they wanted the family and white picket fence house 😔🏡 and then are divorced by 40 or even by 30. And of course for various factors that even vary. Lol. True? I mean you can see what I'm saying right. Lol. There's not quite "do over'" for getting that time back. Lol like a clock ⌚⏰ uh uh. So yes I'm very glad 😊 - I feel for those who waste or have wasted or right now are wasting their prime on a broad or on a man and... he or she or they turns out to be something or in years ahead a cheater, a liar or just a plain tired divorcer lol "honey you were never at home but at work" or even "honey you fell out of love with me the moment the kids fell out of my uterus and I wasn't as tight anymore" lol 😂😆 and on and on it goes or arguments over lifestyle choices "we never share the same political views anymore" or "you never understand money and saving like I do, always spending it as its earnt blah blah" - lol I think divorce lawyers must have some of the ever jobs along with similar things. Involving couples who don't last lol 😆 ahhh bliss 🫢😉🫢

[OlderAndWiser]

People choose the wrong partners but that doesn't mean that marriage failed; it means that these people failed themselves by making poor choices. Yes, marriage is not for everyone, and some people misrepresent themselves before entering a marriage, but there are also people who are very comfortable with marriage.