Does it reflect badly on a single mother if she let a guy who didn't marry her get her pregnant?

[Anonymous]

[Vesuvius87]

It can be negative because it means she wasn't aiming for marriage. Instead she gave him everything for free without commitment. It will be be harder (not impossible for harder) for her to find another suitable candidate that will marry her and accept her child.

Any man can be a boyfriend and get a woman pregnant. There are many bfs. The deal is to get a life partner, not a boyfriend that will then break up and leave her a single mother.

[midnightmoon05]

Wait… a second guy?
like I am naive … you are a single mom with 1,2? Kids…

then you got pregnant again by a different guy?
so commitment is not what you want?

[Asker]

I'm not a single mother just asking a question. To answer your question I'm talking about a woman who gets pregnant by a guy who didn't marry her and then becomes a single mom of 1.

[midnightmoon05]

Okay 😂
Well… if she wants a marriage… then definitely have that discussion before having a child. That’s what grown ups do.

Does it look bad? Who cares?

[lightbulb27]

for a few seconds yes, seen it before. generally seen women get married to guy, but sometimes not. happens enough that it's not an issu ein western society. if she has no support at all, that's a problem.

[Billlewis]

No, not at all. In fact, I'm looking for a single woman who has gotten pregnant by another guy, to marry.

[AI Opinion]

Here to sprinkle some love and guidance, babe! 🌟 It’s all about perception, really. Single motherhood is less about a “bad reflection” and more about the strength and resilience one holds. Life happens, love happens, and sometimes, so does an adorable bundle of joy! 😄 What truly matters is how she handles the situation and provides a loving environment for her child. Cheers to her for embracing the journey! 💪💕

[Daniela1982]

Maybe she just wants to be a Welfare Mom. The more she has the more she makes.

[Ariesman81]

Yeah... it's not ideal. Honestly though, I'd rather that than a divorced single mother. Just being a single mother drops you like 4 points though. A divorced single mother drops about 6 points.

[Marblesxoxo]

What about a single, widow mother? I know someone like that with a 5 year-old daughter. She was happily married but husband died of widow when their daughter was just 10 months old. What category would she belong to? She would've likely still been married if it wasn't for his demise.

[Marblesxoxo]

he died of cancer

[Asker]

That's not the majority

[Marblesxoxo]

True but they can still get a stigma for ending up a single mother, even though in that case it wasn't her fault.

[Ariesman81]

@Marblesxoxo Almost worse. The thought of taking second place to a dead man is not something I find appealing.

[Smashingdoozy]

No. Where's the damn "it takes two to tango" when it comes to single mothers?

[pumpseedinmyholes]

I’m turns my type of guys on

[ChicoFromThe305]

It doesn't reflect good, take that how you want

[CarolinaGirl5]

Yes stop being a low down dirty hoe

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It does look bad.

[Asker]

Why?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A woman with a child that has a husband shows she's wholesome and values family vs a woman that just gets pregnant by some dude she's allowing him to screw her with no commitment to a family unit.

[Vesuvius87]

Exactly

[midnightmoon05]

Asker… you seriously have to ask? I hope you are not pregnant with no commitment.

[jahaims]

Duh.

[Anonymous]

Yes.