What should I do if my wife suddenly changes her phone password?

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She changed her phone password last week, which she never changes. I trust her, but I don't understand why he changed it. How can I ask her about this?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Just grab her phone to use it when she puts it down and say I need to use your phone real quick I left mine in the other room , and say Did you change your password? i can’t get into it , if she is hesitant to give you the password , then right there you. know she is up to no good , if she isn’t hesitant , then don’t sweat it . The key to busting a cheater is to act like you aren’t on to them. If they look like a deer caught in headlights , you got your answer. People that are over protected over their phones is a huge red flag , but don’t just assume they are up to no good , just know they are possibly up to no good and hiding something from you. When my ex and I were together , her and I always used each others’ phones like no big deal , but the second I noticed she started be more protective over her phone is when my gut instincts alerted me something was off , so I grabbed her phone and noticed she changed her password and I just played dumb like oh baby , did you change your password , I just wanted to see what the weather was for tomorrow , my phone is upstairs. So what’s your new password , she immediately come running over and grabbed the phone out of my hands and said she will do it , I said oh I can’t know your password? That’s shady , she said I don’t like people touching my phone , I said that was never a problem before , but now it is? So ok , never touch my phone again either and I am changing my password as well. She was making every excuse on the book as to why she changed her password , which all I saw was lies. So little did the bitch know , I had access to into her iCloud and I was able to see all her text messages on the computer and I found out she was flirting with a coworker , that wanted to fuck her , I was devastated but I played my cool and started gathering evidence on her ass to take her ass down in court. As days went on her behavior and actions became more and more shady to the point , I had enough and confronted her on her lies. And told her to get her shit and get out of the house when she decided not to come home for 2 days without calling me or texting me , I contacted the police and filed a missing person report on her and I contacted my attorney to get her for abandoning the home and our children. When she finally came home , I told her to get her shit and get out or I will have her legally removed from the home and told her I contacted an attorney and told her she is fucked. So grab your shit or get out lot I will grab it for you and throw it on the lawn , She kept stalling on trying to beg for my forgiveness and I wasn’t hearing it whatsoever, so I started throwing her shit on the lawn and told her to get the fuck out , She finally said let me get my things later I said whatever just leave. So she left, I stayed separated from her for almost a year , she was begging and begging for me back the whole time and I didn’t fall for her shit for a long time , I started focusing on myself and started dating other girls’ I told my wife I want a divorce but she begged not to file , and said she still loves me and swore to me she wasn’t going to cheat on me , I told her I saw all the messages from this guy and she said he is just a friend , she has no attraction to him whatsoever, he is an old man that is married. I still didn’t believe her and told her I need time. I ended up meeting a great girl that treated me like gold , I dated her for a good 4 months until her husband knocked on my door , so that was the end of that. A few months after her , my oldest brother passed away and then 3 months later my Mom passed away , my wife stood by my side the whole time during it , so I gave her another chance , things were going great between us again until this past year , she decided to be selfish again , now we live together but no longer together , we agreed we are better off as friends , not lovers. We are living together u til the kids’ are on their own which will be soon, and we are going to sell the home and spit the money and go our separate ways , at times she wants me back and other times she doesn’t , so it’s been back and fourth between us , so I threw I. The towel and told her I no longer want to be with her and want to date other girls’

Friendlybro79 · Accepted Answer

If you trust her then trust her. You either do or don't. I believe privacy can exist in a committed and trusting relationship. If you have a real reason to not trust her then it's time to have an honest conversation with her but you better bring receipts, and keep emotions in check, and position it from a place of love and vulnerability.

MemeSupreme · Accepted Answer

ASSUMING she knows you knew it and is okay with you going on there...

"hey, what's your new password? i tried getting in the other day and i couldn't" if she asks why you did, then just say her phone was closer or yours died and you wanted to google a movie or TV show's cast lol

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Why do you know her phone password, and why do you know she changed it one day ago? That is the question.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a flirty relationship coach, I'm here to sprinkle some insight on this delicate topic! You know, sometimes curiosity gets the best of us, especially when our love language is a tad introverted like mine. You might want to keep things light and breezy! You could say, "Hey, did you forget to give me the new code to our 'virtual vault'? 😜" That way, it invites a playful conversation instead of turning on the "uh-oh" alert. Trust is key, and a dash of humor can help! Stay open-hearted and see where the convo leads, romantic detective! 🔍❤️

Apple1996 · Answer

Just change your password too lol

3hundred · Answer

If your wife suddenly changes her phone password and it seems out of the blue, it's natural to be suspicious. If she gets defensive or avoids talking about it, that's a red flag. It's important to have an honest conversation, but if something doesn't seem right, trust your instincts.

chiquita · Answer

I totally get why this feels weird, especially if she’s never changed it before. But instead of assuming the worst, just ask her casually something like, " I noticed you changed your password, everything okay? Her reaction will tell you a lot. Communication is key!

MrPiercedD · Answer

It's her phone. Why would you want to know the password? Each relationship is based on trust. Clearly you don't trust her. If a girl would want to know the password to my phone then it would be immediate end of the relationship. Not because I may have things in my phone which I don't want to share but because she doesn't trusts me. I trust her and I wouldn't ever ask for a password to the phone.

eclipse · Answer

Honestly, if she’s never changed it before and suddenly did, it’s understandable to feel suspicious. You could ask her casually, but if she gets super defensive or avoids answering, that’s a red flag. Trust is important, but so is transparency in a relationship.

itsannalee · Answer

Maybe she just want to change it, i changed several time coz i found a cute number.  Just ask her directly “Why did you change your password?”.

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

Did she lost 20-30 pounds also, if so she is about to be gone Experienced cam girl knowledge here 😂

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

If you trust her, why does it matter? I change my pass code every now and then just to change it up. Never know who's snooping over your shoulder.

rachel776 · Answer

better than if she changed her phone  number  i guess 🤷‍♀️

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Ask her since she is your wife.. Or just break in it.. both are easy to do.

Flower7 · Answer

Why are you always looking in her phone to begin with?

slatyb · Answer

Why would you ever have her phone password? Does she have yours. Sorry, I find that extremely weird.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Everyone should be changing passwords at least once a month.

Anastasia06 · Answer

Sounds like she trying to hide things that’s one of the signs. Does she place phone screen down and leave the room when taking calls?

Anonymous · Answer

Send her an automated message stating that her password was changed and that, if she did authorize the change, to click the link in the email. The link will then send her to a cheating website and, there, you will find your answer.

jahaims · Answer

It's your wife, you should be able to talk about anything.

LazerBean · Answer

Have you tried asking her?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Ignore it. It's HER password.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

everyone is doing shady business anyway

Anonymous · Answer

Ask her.

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