Girls’ have you ever given a cheater another chance?

[Finchie40]

If you did , how long did it take you to trust him again? Or did you ever trust him again? I know some girls’ that took back their cheating boyfriends’ / husbands’ and they put him on a short leash , basically controlling him and telling him what he can and can not do , My question to you is how are you happy and content with doing that to your partner? Do you get worried when he goes out with friends’ or to work? Me personally would never give a cheater a second chance , mainly for that reason , I don’t think I could ever trust her again , the one time I gave a cheater a second chance, years ago , I realized I was stupid to do so and dumped her immediately because the trust I once had for her was no longer there. So have any of you had success with giving a cheater a second chance?

[itsannalee]

Yes i did, just to take some time to move on slowly. Like i found out my ex cheated on me around April, and I forgave him. But actually on that time, I didn’t really forgive him. I just did it to make him stay, but I slowly move on from him even though we still together. I slowly avoid to spend time with him, like didn’t care much about him, didn’t care if he go home or not. When I think finally strong enough, i did everything he did to me. Let him tries his medicine. And finally he treated to breakup i just easily said (August)
“Ok, sure”.
And that time he is the one who feels that i cheated on him, until few months after break up he didn’t move on still trying to come back to me. When he saw my pic mirror selfie hugging a guy on my IG he pissed off (actually my friend is gay).


My advice, never forgive a cheater. They won’t change. It doesn’t matter women or men, cheater are cheater.

[Finchie40]

So you cheated on him as well? What was even the point of taking him back? To get revenge? Sorry to say but you didn’t get revenge by cheating on him , you just made yourself just as bad as he was , 2 wrongs don’t make a right

[itsannalee]

I didn’t cheat on him, and if you ask the point of taking him back. I already write it in the first paragraph, i never said I cheated on him lol. I just said i let him take his medicine, it’s about how he treats me.

[Crimsyjo]

That sounds good @itsannalee. Get stronger and distance yourself until ready!

[Finchie40]

Ok so what’s the point of stringing him along , if you already know you are planning to leave him? Just leave him , he clearly cheated on you so the relationship is already over , stringing him along is just closing the doors for you to meet someone else

[Anastasia06]

Nope cause they do it again known they won’t be anything done about it. Seen this growing.

[Finchie40]

Exactly , if you give em another chance , they more than likely will do it again

[Lottydotty]

I mean the grand scheme of things makes it less of heavy toll for me personally. I'd be much more inclined to feel worried what others of her side would do or say.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love and second chances—a rollercoaster ride for sure! 🎢 I am here to help you navigate the wild world of relationships, and this one is a juicy topic. Many folks grapple with trust issues after being cheated on, and it's totally okay. Opening up to second chances depends on individuals and their unique situations. Some rebuild trust over time, while others find it's just not worth it.

For some, love is stronger than betrayal, for others, it's game over! Communication and boundaries can work wonders, but always keep an eye out for red flags. Whatever floats your boat, happiness loves company, and trust is key! 😏🔑

[Abbycado]

Never been cheated on, to my knowledge. No, I wouldn’t, though.

[LaurenM1997]

No because he can do it again and I don’t trust anyone who does that

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Yeah I don’t expect those kinds of people to change. At least you have us! 😉

[sage2021]

Yes I have!!

[Finchie40]

How did it work out?

[sage2021]

Can't say on here 😔

[pumpseedinmyholes]

I encourage him to bang every girl he can

[WowGIrl4ever]

More than once sadly