How many times would you give a cheater a chance?

[coachTanthony]

one.

two.

never they are OUT

[FreakInTheBedroom]

Unfortunately I was one of the ones that let a cheating ho come back because I bought her lies about being sorry and missing me amd such and I loved her for real but 9 years later I learned that all the people that said a cheater is gonna cheat was right and I wasted so much time and life on something that wasn't worth a fraction of it but ohwell all I can do now is be one of the ones that tells ya from experience but you dont listen to yet because you have to experience it for yourself to fully understand it all

[OlderAndWiser]

I have been cheated on twice. The first time, it was a girl for whom I had much affection, but I also knew that she was not a forever-into-the-future girl. I knew I would be moving in three or four months, so my affection died instantly and I decided to just use her for sex until I left town. That was 44 years ago.

The second time, it was my wife, and I learned about her infidelity when we were already in the midst of a divorce. At the final divorce hearing, we waked out and I said, "Return to Hell, Demon!"

[coachTanthony]

lol.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks, Coach!

[Screenwriter]

If the person had no history, that I knew of, and were apologetic and committed to the relationship otherwise... sometimes humans get carried away...

However, a person who comes to you through breaking up with someone they're already committed to? That shows a history of not respecting a committment and the likelihood that they're going to do so again is highly probable.

[douride2]

I gave a cheater a chance once years ago. He went right out & cheated again. It will never happen again. Cheat & your sorry ass is out on the street.

[douride2]

Thanks for a MHO.

[AviatorTom]

We are human. We all make mistakes. One time cheating can be forgiven, though not forgotten. A second time, though, is probably the end of the relationship.

[Sal_Monella]

Cheating. sir, is not a mistake. It's done by intent. Committing murder is not a mistake. It has done by intent.

[AviatorTom]

@Sal_Monella That's not necessarily true. The cause of most cheating has been shown to be opportunity, and is not necessarily planned. A person may regret cheating, realizing after the fact that it was a mistake.

[Sal_Monella]

It was still a premeditated conscious decision. Temptation is strong but honor should be stronger

[ohsheeT]

They would be gone. No matter how much I loved her it would be a hard thing to do but I will survive it

[Vesuvius87]

The same as if he were to ever hit me. Zero tolerance policy, aka one strike and you're out.

[PeachyPie93]

If we were together for years, depending on how much I loved and trusted him I would give him one fuck up.. If it happened again I don't think it would hurt me to be honest but there's no love at that point, he is just a dirt bag and it would have to end.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Usually? Zero.

Once someone cheats, the trust is gone.

And without trust, nothing solid can grow.

You can forgive for your own peace, but giving them another chance often just reopens the same wound later.

If you’re even considering giving them a second chance, it’s usually not because they deserve it, it’s because you still care.

But healthy love also knows when to walk away.

So my honest answer
I wouldn’t give a cheater any chances.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Once a cheater always a cheater however depending on how the person cheated could determine if the individual is worthy of a second chance if you believe in second chances. On the other hand if the sex is good keep the person around a little longer.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Call me prideful, you break my trust and you will forever be excluded from the family category of my life. Highest uou can go is useful acquaintance

[exitseven]

When I was younger I would say zero but as I got older I sort of realize hat it might be possible to make a mistake so maybe I would give somebody a second chance.

[msc545]

Zero times. Cheaters always cheat and if they give them a chance they will just do it to you again and again. Never let a cheater back in your life or back in your house.

[Californiagirl5]

One and done. I heard stories of people getting STDs.

[Anonymous]

Once you have cheated on me you're out. The probability of someone cheating on you again is higher than them cheating on you in the first place. The only way to ensure that a cheater stops cheating is to end things with them permanently. So as that they feel the full ramifications of their actions. And if they don't learn that lesson; at least they are no longer your problem.

[Joshydavid25]

Honestly for me, I would give her a chance once, and that's if she was repentant and wanted to gain my trust back.. And that would depend on how far in the relationship we were..

[Anonymous]

I have never been in a relationship but i get horny he gets horny. Thats a reality unless you meet someone you can't get enough of. Even he gets old at some point. Nothing lasts forever.

[robocop666]

Man on the show cheaters gave his girlfriend a chance. married her later and she had an affair so he divorced her. Stupid move.

[dislikesmath]

Zero I would leave on the first and never look back

[Anonymous]

If you cheat on me it's done. Your dead to me. If I was dating someone and they cheated on me and I saw them getting beaten in public I wouldn't even call 911 I'd just let him keep hitting her.

[Luopio27]

"Shame on you, if you fool me once. Shame on me if you fool me twice!"



Leann Rhymes
Life goes on!

[MrChinaski]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[Nice222]

It really depends on the situation.
I have been married long term and I’m not willing to throw it all away for one fuck up.
but if I found out she was in a full relationship then I would leave her.

[Anonymous]

I'm like a genie, I would give her three chances.

If she cheats three times, she's out.

Everyone can make a mistake, and everyone can repeat a mistake, but three times... that's just too much.

[McLlovin]

If she's just a girlfriend. Zero. But a wife it depends on the situation.

[Drumlin2001]

Should be none. Can be more difficult if kids invovled.

[Vegasrunner]

I wouldn't give a woman a chance if she cheated woman have basically one role and that's to be sexually loyal to HV men.

[Crankor]

None. Its a cowardly thing to do for anyone. You dont have the guts to confront the situation but just ignore the issues. Pretty sad in my opinion

[CallmeTheKnight]

Accepting someone back after they made a choice to be unfaithful is wild

[DrPepper12]

Here's an idea: Open relationship and no cheating needed..

[Wiredone]

If i ever got cheated on they would be out as soon as I found out

[worldscolide]

Never, Cheaters aren't human, they are monsters.

[LiamJHayden]

Cheating is a one-and-done in my universe.

[Staximus]

You mean a second chance? Zero

[Staximus]

If you think an adult who is most likely already set in their ways is going to go from untrustworthy to trustworthy, you're dumber than a box of rocks.

[Staximus]

Forgiving a cheater is basically telling them their behavior is acceptable and you will tolerate it. The treatment you tolerate and accept is the treatment you receive.

[Sal_Monella]

Once a betrayer, always a betrayer

[katiesmuff]

It's was once and out!

[Finchie40]

Zero times

[jazzy34]

NONE. Bye. 👋🏽✌🏾

[blackeagle007]

Once and don’t let the door hit ya

[khyalove8]

two maybe

[ChangeMefot]

None

[Brady]

I don't no.

[dudeinohio]

No chance

[TonyMetal___86]

Never, they are out!

[Cidknee]

Out'a there!

[DavyJ]

None.