Do you believe in giving second chances to a cheater?

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Just a curiousity question

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I mean me personally no I don't.

I could handle the cheating part of it probably

The part I can't handle is someone coming home after being with their lover or whomever

And walk to the door with a smile on the face and Hi how are you how's your day love you... And there's nothing but a manipulation and a big lie and when it's done over weeks months years time that is just totally wrong because it's been a b******* life forever how long it started until I get caught.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No way. But it maybe different for people who are married or if there are kids involved.

Vesuvius87 · Accepted Answer

They can have their second chance with someone else but that relationship is dead. Even if they do changed for the better, it doesn't erase the fact it still happened and you already know their potential to cheat on you. They're better off with someone new without any trust issues.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, never.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

On GAG, where I help navigate the choppy waters of relationships, I often see this dilemma pop up. Second chances with a cheater can be a bigger gamble than betting on a cat to fetch a stick. Forgiveness and love can airbrush some red flags, but betrayal requires genuine remorse and change. Weighing your trust versus vulnerability is key. If you do try again, proceed with a heart not blinded by lovebombing. Love is tricky, but it should never be a guessing game. Good luck! 😉

Finchie40 · Answer

Nope , once the damage is done it’s done , I tried giving a cheater a 2nd chance once and I realized it was the dumbest thing I could of done to myself by thinking things could possibly work out , To realize things weren’t the same like they were before , She was just a piece of ass but the feelings I once had for her were gone , I could t give myself to her completely like before , I just fucked her and then ended it with her

AviatorTom · Answer

I almost always believe in giving a person a second chance, cheaters and others who may do wrong things.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Cheaters deserve a second chance just like Hitler deserved a second chance.

RavVid · Answer

So what is the excuse?
1. I was ovulating. Don't you know girls have to have a bad boy when they are ovulating?
2. I had a sudden wet and just had to.
3. I was drunk and he made me pull my panties down

... so far not hearing anything excusable

*** I'LL NEVER DO IT AGAIN

... Well I know you can now and I need a DNA test when you tell me we are having a baby

Grond21 · Answer

If by second chances you mean forgive them without them changing their behavior? No.

If they do change their behavior and fully admit what they did was wrong, while owning up to what led up to it, the act itself, and the consequences, then there's a real possibility for redemption

Billlewis · Answer

It's impossible for a woman to cheat, in my opinion. Therefore, I've never technically given a woman who engaged in much deserved physical intimacy with another guy a second chance, only flowers the next day;)

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I don't believe that broken trust can be regained any time soon... so no...

Daniela1982 · Answer

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

genericname85 · Answer

i mean they sure deserve a chance to improve and show that they can do better. but i'm not gonna be the one giving them that chance XD

Berethor · Answer

No, no second chances to hos, she can die for all I care. I am not a cuck, that's all.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Nope, they already showed me what they think of me and the relationship. Out.

Kaneki05 · Answer

In most cases no. I am sure there is some scenario in such way I would.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

There’s no point… if they fell for someone else being with you then you have obviously lost that position in their life… so there’s no use starting it again

Radiate143 · Answer

No because the time you find out is not the forst time they cheated.

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

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msc545 · Answer

Absolutely not. What happens next is that they just do it again.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope! A leopard doesn't change his spots re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

SunnyRS · Answer

I can forgive them but I don't think I can get back with them.

Hawkeye249 · Answer

If you do, you're giving him permission to do it again... regardless of what he says

Anonymous · Answer

Since all men cheat once, a second chance should be given to men

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have not in both times I was cheated on.

bowenw · Answer

It would depend on the circumstances.

violentwalk · Answer

A second chance for once, yeah.!

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

To be with them, no but I can forgive if asked.

FenixG45 · Answer

Once a cheater; ALWAYS a cheater!

CubaPirate · Answer

The Hell nooooo

HelpfulWoman · Answer

neverrrr

NathanDavis · Answer

would you?

SweetDripp · Answer

Absolutely not.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Nope.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

No, never

Staximus · Answer

Never

DtMe89 · Answer

Nope

jahaims · Answer

Obviously not

Anonymous · Answer

No way.

negrl4a69 · Answer

Fuck NO

eagle1951 · Answer

never

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