How are people able to give chances to their partners after they cheated? Would you be willing to give any chances?

[Amishaxx]

[Summeroflove]

Because they have zero self respect. I doubt I could even get over emotional cheating.

Once someone cheats on you it’s done. If they will cheat on you imagine what else they would do? Cheating is disgusting and if breaks all trust that you had with the person.

If someone will cheat on you once the chances of them cheating again are very high. I don’t know if I agree with once a cheater always a cheater. But many times that is the case.

If someone is losing interest or isn’t happy. They need to take it upon themselves to just end the relationship and move on. But some people are too much of a coward to do this.

Some people would rather be with someone who makes them miserable then be alone… Even though they could probably find someone much better.

[Anonymous]

Because of attachment and fear of being alone

[kylee2437]

Yeah I’m not sure how people are really able to honestly because either way, you are always going to assume they haven’t changed. I wouldn’t be able to do it , and I think I’m worth more than keeping a cheater around

[Finchie40]

No , if she cheats on me it’s over and if I cheat on her it’s over , you truly don’t love and value someone if you can cheat on them , I know some give second chances so I guess it comes down to why the partner cheated on you in the first place , If they cheated because their partner was treating them like shit , with holding intimacy and affection from them then sometimes the non cheater will realize they weren’t the greatest either , I know some couples that have gotten back together after cheating occurred and they seem to have worked things out and stayed together , I cheated on a girl and she wanted me back after I told her the truth , I still told her No and told her the reason I cheated on her was because I truly didn’t value her , I told her she needs to be with someone that truly values her cuz her and I weren’t compatible what so ever I know cheating is wrong but I feel it’s more wrong when you string someone along and can’t admit that you cheated on them , How do you honestly look someone in the eyes and tell them you love them knowing you cheated on them?

[SarahS98]

My parents forgave each other long ago but honestly I wouldn't be able to deal with that type of mental hell nor constantly be wondering if they're cheating again every time they go outside or work.

I think some people are just strong enough to reconcile. I wouldn't tolerate cheating in my marriage though. Zero chances from me. Your first and only chance is when you need to talk to me about any issue or even tell me in my face if I'm not satisfying your needs, what we need to work on, etc but don't pretend everything is ok and go behind my back like a coward.

[8InchesChris]

You see about my last point you read, about the girl I cheated. After she came back to London she wanted to give me one more chance, but I said these stupid words. ( I can't am sorry, I can't let them laugh at you when you would be with me and behind my back people will say, how can you be with him he cheated on you. Are you crazy brake up with him) so in my 0IQ brain i thought it was good idea to break up full and final and from then she didn't say one word for 8 years now. S i think she's mega pissed

[Sasha0426]

I mean, you did betray her trust so it would be stupid of her to give you a second chance.

[8InchesChris]

@Sasha0426 exacly and that is what I already known and I didn't want people to make fun. Well i think I did the rigbt thing morally...

[Sasha0426]

I guess. But, you also should have broken up with her instead cheating.

[8InchesChris]

@Sasha0426 No that was Stupid I am always telling myself that it was the drugs and alcohol and am blaming everything but not me, when it was me. 😞
Like I said i regret it and ever since never cheated again, but now because of my first real live that fu**ed my mental health and blamed everything on me, and then betrayed me.

Now sorry if your still reading but now I am only interested in Hooking up, I dont trust you lot and I will never again. But at least I won't get heart broken ever again

[Sasha0426]

Same with any woman who’s smart enough not to date you. You’re just as bad 🤷‍♀️

[Sasha0426]

You have no right to say you don’t trust women when you’re just as shitty. So don’t you fucking dare act as if you’re innocent.

[8InchesChris]

@Sasha0426 no i lost sympathy for you girls, i lost respect and still loosing how you decide to look in the mirror everyday and enjoy what you see. Because i bloody despise what j see in the morning hun

[Sasha0426]

How can you say you lost sympathy for women when YOU’RE THE ONE who fucking cheated?

[8InchesChris]

@Sasha0426 I do because you dnt know my experience with another girl. What i did was wro g but its in the past I can be better but No straight after last shit one then I start to date a Hooker do dont tell me if I have the right or no because you never can understand the feeling that and I never want anyone go through same bullshit seriously

[8InchesChris]

@Sasha0426 wbu ur 30 am 24 what have you done in life thats better than me. If your going so hard at me go say some facts u unlogical being.

[EricSummer]

Yes, if we have a child together I would give her another chance after an affair. It would feel like I won her back out of the arms of another.

In reality, she started missing the other and went back to him before breaking up with him again. That was unacceptable and here I had to end it.

Divorce proceedings are ongoing. I'm with a wonderful woman now and my ex has lots of guys.

[CAPLOVE]

There's an old saying in Tennessee, I know it's in Texas
Probably in Tennessee, that says
"Fool me once, shame on
Shame on you"
Fool me, we can't get fooled again
Fool me one time shame on you
Fool me twice, can't put the blame on you
Fool me three times, fuck the peace signs
Load the chopper, let it rain on you


I live by these lyrics from no role modlez. This is so true

[God_of_Thunder]

Absolutely not, no.

I've had one ex who cheated, and the day it happened was the last day that she was a part of my life. I got rid of her immediately, and have not seen, or spoken to her, since.

There are no second chances, there are no rationalizations, and there is no apologizing for that. Cheating is one and done, and nothing will ever change that.

[Anonymous]

I think they give them chances because they have low self esteem. They are afraid of being alone, so they settle for less. They do not understand that being alone is better than being with a hypocrite. I am not going to give any chance, And if anyone comes back, I will break his teeth.

[19magic]

I would feel ashamed, statistics show that men cheat due to not having their desires met or having peace at home. If he couldn't talk to me about it then what kind of relationship are we actually in

[yallxisxtrippin]

I've avoided relationships on the fear of being cheated on. I absolutely hate the idea of trusting, and having that trust be used against me. I sometimes want to kill myself just thinking about the possibility. Can't imagine how people who actually get cheated on feel. If someone is willing to lie about how they feel about me, and put me through that pain, they either have no self control, or don't love me. Both are bad for partners.

[glennos89]

I wouldn't because I can never thrust them again for the whole 100%. And if I can thrust that person blindly it's making no sense to me to continue. I don't believe they won't do it again sooner or later

[megabamse]

I would not give them a new chance. There are so many steps to actually cheat and you could have jumped out on eny of them steps on the way to cheat. So it's a weakness that worth having around

[Spongebobssocks]

Nope never. I'd leave. I wouldn't waste any energy on revenge either. I would just find someone worthy of my time and move on happily.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I would give her another chance.

Mainly because I actually have to love someone to be hurt by cheating

[BarryLiverstone]

Three strikes and you are out. I recognize that people make mistakes and if the cheater clearly made a bad decision I can forgive once and maybe twice. But if they did it more than that I’m done and the relationship ends.

[desidoll]

Too afraid of being single, low self-esteem and have no self-respect for themselves.

[Kelly6]

or kind people

[CallmeTheKnight]

When you lack self respect, you choose the worst decisions for yourself.


I wouldn’t keep a cheating woman in my life

[Rizwan_khan]

I will never give second chance because if person is cheater is always a cheater. I will make my thoughts clear.

[msc545]

Usualy they do this because they are getting good sex, or they think they are in love with the person that is cheating on them and they cannot give that up.

[Fireguy17]

No, I've been cheated on twice and both times I have moved on.

[Anonymous]

I would give zero chances as a man. However, I understand women giving chances to their man if they're trying to retain someone that is highly valued by other women.

[SarahS98]

Nope. I was shocked enough when I learned my parents cheated on each other long ago. Mom cheated first then dad revenge cheated 8 years later. I don't want a repetition of my parents happening in my marriage.

[SarahS98]

My dad's old journal (I accidentally found it) has all the details of the damages cheating does, the rollercoaster and recovery time. No way I want to go through that mental hell.

[Sparkie460]

Depending on the situation I might give her a second chance

[Anonymous]

Nope. 1 strike and she's out. Almost NO ONE cheats only once. If she cheats on you, she will do it again. It's only a matter of when.

[SunnyRS]

I might forgive them for the cheating but I won't give our relationship a second chance.

[alearningboy]

It depends on how he/she cheated. But even you gave him/she a chance you can't forget it.

[OldWomanBySoul]

Cheat once and you're gone, bye bitch

[spartan55]

That's a big hell no.

[boggboss]

I could stay friends but no relationship is done

[SnowedIn]

Yes. I would be able to do that.

[MementoMori777]

Nope not my cup of tea

[Agape93]

No idea. I don't forgive or give second chances.

[itsalyssaagain]

Low self esteem. No I wouldn’t.

[linka_pat307]

Sorry u don't

[LavLavLuv]

What chance LMAOO

[TonyMetal___86]

No chances for cheaters

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. Cheating is a one and done.

[shades777]

nah i could never, im not playing second fiddle

[Twalli]

Depends on how and when I discovered it

[Z1pTD]

Depends on if they've cheated before

[101mzsora]

no i wouldn't

[Kelly6]

yes i will forgive

[PointTaken]

Don't think I would.

[EVERYONEDIED]

Nooo