Is it worth it to give a cheater guy a second chance?

[Anonymous]

I consider flirting as cheating. He flirted with another girl in front of me and I was broken, he understood my pain and told me that he did that to make me feel jealous and to make me fall in love with him. Now that we are together, he claims to love only me and not anyone else and he isn't even flirting with any other girl other than me. Is this relationship worth to keep with him? Will he not cheat on me or flirt with any girl again? Can I trust him completely enough to not let my doubts ruin my relation with him?

[BrookeAZ90]

If he actually cheated, I'd say always get rid of them and never take them back but your definition of cheating is super strict. I'd call it rather disrespectful perhaps but not rising to the level of cheating so I think it's not quite time to get rid of him. You voiced your displeasure with his flirting and he seems to understand so I'd see for a while if his actions also show he understands how it made you feel first.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not... A leopard Never Changes Its Spots.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[FireTower]

This reads like a waitress smiled at him while handing him a menu and he said thanks and smiled back and you took that as him flirting. Describe the actual instance an have some decide if that's flirting.

[Sasha0426]

If you feel you can’t trust him, maybe this relationship isn’t a good idea.

[billmunch]

I personally have no problem forgiving cheating

[Wise4myage]

What does your gut feeling tell you?

[Anonymous]

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