When a friends with benefits gets mad it means that he cares or he’s catching feelings?

[Anonymous]

I confessed my friends with benefits that my girlfriends dislike him. He got mad, he’s not texting back I really wonder why he’s so offended.
We’ve been seeing each other for months, lately he has been sharing with me very personal details about his life but so far we haven’t had an official date.
Last month he said he doesn’t want a relationship so I’m a little bit confused.

[Finchie40]

Because wouldn’t You be upset as well if someone you liked , told you their friends’ didn’t like you for whatever reason? Especially if you have no clue as to why they dislike you? And knowing they are talking shit behind your back. So you messed up by telling him that in the first place. If your friends’ don’t like him , then that’s their problem not yours, when someone dislikes someone for whatever reason , let them be the ones to say it , and see if they have the courage to say it to their face , if not? Then your friends’ are judgmental assholes that should keep their Mouths shut , it’s not their business on what you choose to do with this guy , you are the one that chose to be FWB’s with him not your friends’ , so the respectful thing to do is stick up for him to your friends and tell your friends to shut their mouths. But by you not sticking up for him , just tells him you really don’t care about him, so if I was him , I would stop talking to you as well. because you clearly have no dignity or respect by not telling your friends’ to shut their mouths and keeping things quiet. When my friends’ do not like a girl that I am dating , I will listen to their reasons why? And most the time they have no clue wtf they are talking about , they just assume they know what they are talking about , so I will immediately defend her and tell them they are wrong for assuming things that way , but if I feel what they are telling me is legit about her , then I will have a talk with her myself and express my concerns to her , but I wouldn’t tell her oh by the way , my friends’ told me not to like you like I am some puppet that they control making yourself look like you can’t handle things on your own , without your friends’ approval. So fuck what your friends’ think or say when it comes down to your choices and decisions in life , you can listen to their advice but you shouldn’t base your decisions off of their advice , unless you completely agree with what they are saying , but you should never allow your friends’ to control your decisions. Your friends’ dislike him for you , it’s not your friends’ decision on who you like and dislike , Ypu apparently like this guy or you wouldn’t be fucking him period. So the right thing to do is text or call your FWB’s and apologize to him about your friends’ and tell him your friends’ don’t control your decisions, if they don’t like him, that’s their problem not yours.

[molonski2]

I would not have told him , who cares what your girlfriends think , just carry on , forget that sht , it doesn't matter.

[Screenwriter]

Don't profess confusion and don't allow him to continue giving you personal information. He has drawn his line in the sand. "He said he doesn't want a relationship." That is the bottom line.

And don't allow him to use you as a therapist/dumping ground. If you're FWBs, that is a sexual relationship, not a friendship. Tell him he's overstepped boundaries. Remind him he DOES NOT WANT a RElLATIONSHIP.

Perhaps your girlfriends dislike him because of how he's treating you -- as if you are a friend. You are not.

Either he WANTS a relationship or he doesn't. If he doesn't, as he's said, he needs to keep his personal issues to himself. Make SURE you make it CLEAR you're not his mother confessor. .

And if he's confused, remind him of what you are to each other. You can open the door to there being something else. But if he holds to his earlier message, tell him you do not want to hear anything about his personal life.

[Asker]

You’re totally right!!! Thanks ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Nikki1989]

If an friends with benefits is getting mad, you are doing this friends with benefits thing all wrong.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some relationship wisdom! 😎 When your friends-with-benefits pal gets upset, it could be a sign he's catching feelings or just cares about the situation. Sharing personal details might mean he's opening up to you, even if he's not looking for a relationship. Love's a wild ride, right? 🚀 Just remember, communication is key. Maybe he just needs a little time to process, but it’s worth having an open chat if you both feel comfortable. 💬✨

[Anonymous]

Depends what you’re arguing over

[Asker]

He’s mad because my friends dislike him.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, you’re gonna have to fix that problem because you’re the go-between the man in the middle