Should your partner satisfy all of your requests?

[Anonymous]

This applies both in the bedroom and out.

In my opinion, someone who loves you usually is willing to do what you ask them unless they are very uncomfortable with it or have moral qualms.

Leaning to accept a "no", is one of the most important things in my opinion, in every relationship. Both my wife and I have said "no" to certain requests we asked each other, and we never fought about it but rather had very constructive discussions.

[Nikki1989]

No, expecting your partner to fulfil all your needs puts an immense and unfair burden on them. It sets them up for failure and can lead to resentment and disappointment.

[Agape93]

If they want to, sure

[OlderAndWiser]

If your "partner" can't say "no" to you, they are not your partner, but your prisoner.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Jamie05rhs]

I think 75% is a reasonable threshold.