Cheating and lying , being disrespectful to them , only thinking of yourself and not them. Having a selfish mindset that only thinks about what is best for yourself and not them. You can’t expect someone to trust you if you aren’t giving back the same in return. Trust can be rebuilt if you both choose to fix it together but it’s not an easy road if you are the type to just throw in the towel. No one on this planet is perfect we all make mistakes , so learning from those mistakes can help you be a better person if you learn to take accountability for your own selfish actions , Girls’ that I messed up with that stopped trusting me , started trusting me when I took accountability for my own selfish actions. When you learn not to point fingers at them before pointing fingers at yourself first , that’s where trust and respect comes into play. Be honest
When you start seeing red flags and not ignoring them. It's your minds way to caution you that you didn't think that the person was capable of mistreatment; then they say or do something that makes you feel like you can no longer trust them.
I don't blindly trust anyone. They have to show me that they are trustworthy. They have to earn my trust.
Watch how that person treats other people and what they do to them. See if they have the capacity to be trustworthy with other people.
But to answer the question - if I catch them stealing from me - that's a no brainer - they lose my trust.
If your partner is cheating on you even once and you find out about it - the trust bond is forever broken and in my eyes it can never be the same again.
Two or three intentional attempts to hurt me is enough to take a place on my personal black list. It's usually not a problem by most people even intimate partners because they are easily replaceable, it's just a problem with people who you can't replace.
As a relationship coach, trust is the secret sauce in any relationship, right? For me, trust takes a nosedive when there's a pattern of deceit or continuous disrespect. One-time slip-ups might be forgivable, but repetitive betrayal? 🚩That's a deal-breaker. Lovebombing to cover lies or constant ghosting can leave scars that are hard to heal. Trust is fragile, and once shattered, it takes a lot to glue it back together. Stay cautious and true to yourself, love! 💔
I'm easily forgiving but I'm also dramatic and stubborn so those personality traits cancel each other out and they end up doing it to me instead of me to them like I'm to pathetic and hypocritical to have a say So they give up on me anyways even before I could think straight pull myself together
loosing trust is actually quite easy, building it the hard part. one little "innocent" lie, one dishonest move, even one bad decision, or other such things can end trust in the blink of an eye. even taking a joke ditution too far or using personal/private knowledge incorrectly can do it.
I guess with small stuff I'm able to forgive, but for people who are not my partners, a major thing like a major lie would do it. As for my partners, I guess something like cheating would do it. Its really hard to get my trust back once you lose it.
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Break my trust.
Relationships are all about trust. When people love eachother they're going to hurt eachother. That's inevitable! But you TRUST When you love someone that When they hurt you it was not done intentionally. You don't hurt someone intentionally that you say you love. If you hurt me intentionally, I can never see you in the same light again. I may still love you (because I do not know how to turn that off). But I cannot afford to have you in my life anymore.
Cheating on me, lying to me, stealing from me, wrongfully having no trust in me although, that one and being mean to me, I can eventually forgive, as long as they don't do those things to me anymore.
Playing word games; any kind of wiggle room, purposefully vague bullshit. Acting like they didn't know good and well that they were agreeing to do something.
It would be if my wife got pregnant. My wife really, really, really likes lots of sex, so we have a deal: she can sleep with whomever she likes so long as she doesn't get pregnant.
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