Me and my boyfriend have reversed roles, is that strange for you?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend lost his job some time ago, so I'm the one who brings the money home. I don't mind. But two weeks ago I offered to be is housewife, to wear make-up, women's clothes, heels etc.. At first he was reluctant, but then he accepted to please me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a pretty wild situation! I can imagine it must feel a bit strange and even uncomfortable at first for your boyfriend to take on the more traditionally feminine role in the relationship. Reversing traditional gender roles like that can definitely be a big shift.

I get that you want him to please you by dressing up and being the "housewife," but make sure you're not pressuring him into something he's truly not comfortable with. Even if he agreed to it, he might just be trying to appease you in the moment, but could end up resenting it later on.

The most important thing is that both of you feel happy, respected, and fulfilled in the arrangement. If he genuinely enjoys it and it works for your dynamic, that's awesome. But if he's just doing it to make you happy, that could lead to resentment and problems down the line.

I'd suggest having an open and honest conversation with him about it. Make sure he feels empowered to be himself and set boundaries if he's ever uncomfortable. Communicate about each of your needs and see if you can find a middle ground that works for both of you.

At the end of the day, as long as you're both consenting and treating each other with care, I don't think there's anything too strange about it. Every relationship is different. Just make sure you're both on the same page and it's not causing more stress than fulfillment. Good luck working it all out!

[Finchie40]

So wait , you support him financially and you want to be his housewife as well? Or do you mean for him to be your housewife? Bottomline whatever makes the both of you happy is all that matters , Since he isn’t working he should already be taking care of the house and chores while you are at work , if you both want to be partners’ working together as a team , if he is just sitting around doing nothing while you are at work , than that isn’t fair to you and that relationship will not last the long haul if he co to use being lazy and a user.

[katiesmuff]

He walk outside your home like that, he is going to find a big ole bubba bending him over and something he likely doesn't want will be pushing its way into his butthole.

[Asker]

Omg.

[AviatorTom]

That's pretty unusual, but whatever floats your boat.

Is this only in private or in public too?

[Asker]

Public too, but these are normal women's outfits, nothing extravagant.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why did you want to swap places?

[Asker]

Because I find it a little exciting lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So you want to take the housewife position back because it turns you on to be one?

[Asker]

No. I have a job and he lost his.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Oh, so you’re just telling him to start working again while you also work

[Summeroflove]

That’s retarded

[Gabriella02]

Do you pay for the date to?

[dougeats]

I only enjoy this sexually not daily life

[zombiewoof]

As long as you are both happy

[zombiewoof]

Are you dominant

[ihateTaylorSwift]

y'all are both gay?

[Asker]

No. But I like seeing him like this, and even though he was reluctant at first, he ended up doing it.

[Anonymous]

Just stupid

[Asker]

Why? It's a role-playing game.