Are me and my boyfriend incompatible?

My boyfriend and I have varying views on different things. Like he doesn't believe in fate or soulmates which isn't a big deal but the fact that he doesn't maybe want kids or marriage is concerning. He admitted to me that he may not want that and that he doesn't want me to wait on him to come around to something that may not happen and end up resenting him.

But I love him so very much but I also realize I'm not getting any younger and kids is something I definitely want. I know I can wait maybe a few more years but if he decides he doesn't want kids then I don't know if I am wasting my time and his.

He's not sure what he wants at this time and I'm not sure if I can just wait on him to make a decision but our relationship is still very new. We've only been together for a month and a half. Though we've been intimate for almost a year now and known each other for a very long time. I don't want to break up with him. I want us to work it out somehow but I find it's hard to do when he doesn't know what he wants and I do know what I want.
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So I made a very hard decision and I choose him. We can always adopt kids if we want some later on in life. If I'm being honest with myself, I'm not sure if I'm cut out to be a mom anyways. So maybe it's for the best that he's not sure. Thanks for you guys input. It really made me think about what's most important and our goals for the future do have to align.
Are me and my boyfriend incompatible?
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