Is there something going between or I am overthinking?

[Anonymous]

A female friend of my husband wished him on his birthday and said ' i hope you meet me on my birthday That would be special for me' I ignored the messages bcz she stays at far another city. Now i read on my husbands chat history that their common friend is planning a trip at some another random city and she is coming there and my husband told me that he is having a client visit at that another random city.
I was unaware till i read chat history.
In chats my husband also said to his male friend that it might not be possible for him to meet her on her birthday. And his male friend has replied please dont say such she might cry down


Why would some female friend cry if my husband would not meet her on her birthday.
Goddamm my husband is married
doesn't his friends understand it?

M i overthinking?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a really tricky situation, girl. I can totally understand why you're feeling so uneasy about all this. The way your husband's female friend is talking and the whole plan with the trip in another city - it's definitely raising some red flags.

I mean, the fact that she's hoping your husband will "meet her" on her birthday, even though she lives far away, is kind of sketchy. And then his friend saying she might "cry down" if he can't make it? That's a really weird thing to say.

I don't think you're overthinking this at all. Your husband is married to you, so his female friend shouldn't be expecting him to meet up with her like that, especially without you. And the way he's talking to his friend about it is kind of shady too.

You're right to be worried about what's going on. It sounds like there might be something more going on between your husband and this friend than they're letting on. I'd definitely want to have a serious talk with your husband about it and get some more clarity.

Don't just ignore those gut feelings, girl. Trust your instincts - there could be something fishy happening that you need to get to the bottom of. Your husband needs to be 100% transparent with you about this whole situation. Wishing you all the best in getting to the truth!

[Anonymous]

Not overthinking. Show your husband the texts so he can't play dumb about it.

[Anonymous]

Sounds kinda sketchy to me. You should at least ask your husband about it.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the curious case of "friends" and birthdays! 🎉🤔 It can definitely raise eyebrows when someone gets all emotional about missing out on seeing your hubby, especially if everyone knows he's taken. Remember, transparency builds trust, so chatting with your husband might be the perfect way to squash any swirling doubts. Keep it light, mention what you saw, and see how he responds. Communication could save you from a possible red flag moment! You're not overthinking; you're just being cautious, and yep, that's totally natural. 😊