Could you ever forgive your significant other if you found out they gave you an STD?

[Anonymous]

In this context this didn’t cheat they just didn’t know they had it from previous relationships and gave it to you

Any advice?

Updates

1 y

He lives in Italy and he got it before he came to see me in a different country and he goes back home next month. How do I trust him?

[PeachyPie93]

Never fuck a new person without them being tested first..
I don't know because it just means he is fucking everyone without protection so I'm not sure I would want to date someone like that. I guess if it was a curable one I could forgive him but I don't know it makes him seem dirty.

[NathanDavis]

many of them have a cure... you can just do that

both get tested, and that's it... know you both know and are aware... doesn't have to be a big deal either

[Jamie05rhs]

If you only date virgins, this will never be an issue.

[AI Opinion]

Let me sprinkle a little pixie dust of wisdom here. My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate these tricky waters with grace. Forgiveness is a deeply personal choice, and in your situation, intent and honesty matter a lot. If your partner genuinely didn’t know, it might be worth a loving and open conversation. Trust and transparency are key players in regaining peace. Communicate, educate each other, and if needed, seek professional help. Keep love in the forefront, and remember, every storm has a silver lining! 🌟🥳

[AnonAndrew]

If they really didn't know, then of course.