Should I really have patience in this matter?

So I have been dating this guy for 5 years. He hasn't asked me to move in or anything. I asked some years ago and he said its going to happen just be patient. So yesterday he mention assisting me with getting a place in the same vicinty as him. So i said how is it you want me to live close to you but not with you. He said I should be patient and that he have to be comfortable first. He has his own home and he is stable in life. I jus dont understand what he is saying about comfortable. Could it be that he is has no actual plans of moving forward in our relationship?

Should I really have patience in this matter?
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