He proposed to me. what should I do?

[tempirl2012]

Last night my boyfriend of 7 years , proposed to me.

But there's a problem.

1. He made kids on me with at least two other women but only clam his SON. 2. HE cheated. 3. He doesn't volunteer help. ONLY sometimes.

4. My family doesn't like him. But they're cordial with him.

5. He still talks and STILL is sleeping with the baby mother who he doesn't claim, his son's mother and possibly others.

And

6. He tells people WE'RE NOT together.

Including the other baby mothers. The only time he claims me is when I catch him in a lie.

I really do believe he'll change once we're married.

What do you all think?

[lightbulb27]

If you like living a psycho world, go head. I'd want nothing to do with that. If you have no kids with him, I'd run for your life, lock the door, and disconnect. Re-examine why you are with this boy whom is not a friend for 7 years. There is something wrong in your mind, so time to see a therapist and dig deeper why your self esteem is so low.

I gotta wonder what the propsal was or what his vows would be? something like:

"I promise you nothing, you is mine and I do as I wish when I want to. You best not back talk or else".

Go heal yourself, and find a decent guy which to build a family with. Move far away if you have to.

[abc3643]

Is this a serious fucking question?
Not only should you not marry him, you should even be with him anymore! You should have dumped his ass during the first Trump Administration!

[Anonymous]

Oh lord, what on earth are you even thinking about saying yes for?

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach with a splash of flirt, I'm just going to drop a truth bomb and sprinkle some love: It seems like you're navigating a minefield of giant red flags here. 🏴‍☠️ The dream of someone magically changing after marriage is a common myth. Remember, you deserve a partner who respects you and values honesty. Ask yourself if you can truly trust him with your heart. Marriage should be a leap of love, not a leap of faith onto quicksand, love. 🌟✨

[Summeroflove]

If you don’t see yourself marrying him you point blank shouldn’t be with him I wouldn’t trust him either. But guess what? I don’t know his heart but if he’s a dark personality individual which there is a good chance he is. Guess how he thinks?

If you’re dumb enough to fall for his lies. You’re dumb enough to waste so many years of your life with him. You’re too weak to stand up for yourself. You’re too naïve to catch on. Then he feels you deserve it. To be lied to. Controlled. Taken advantage of mentally. Physically. Emotionally. Sexually and in every other way.

Do I think or feel that way? Absolutely not but that’s the harsh reality of what goes on in these peoples heads. They will also make you look like the bad guy when it’s all said and done.

[BigTex53]

He’s a cheater and a liar — plus he’s a jerk. Tell him NO! Dump him before it’s too late.

[JesseP1nk]

Darling its more like you pointed out all the reasons WHY NOT to marry him.

[missindiana93]

That would be a fuck no.

[Anonymous]

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