Should I be upset about my boyfriend being social media friends with this girl?

[desperatelyhungry]

We’ve been dating 8 months. He had a friend pass in September and at the funeral he made a point of pointing a girl out to me and saying “she asked me out when we both worked at my last job. I said no cause I was taken, but that should make you happy to know I chose you when I’ve had other opportunities along the way.” (She asked him this in 2022) I didn’t like that comment and tbh that’s VERY out of character for him he isn’t usually cocky. They didn’t talk or anything, but I noticed in November when we went through a rough patch and nearly broke up they were friends on fb. I called him on it, thinking it was the old breaking up with me to get with another girl act. He said they hadn’t even messaged since 2022 and it has nothing to do with her. We got back together but it does bug me him having her on fb after she asked him out, which you have to assume means she liked him. He’s recently been getting into TikTok and following people he knows hoping to get a follow back. I noticed they follow each other. We got into it about her again and he said I’m not going to
Tell him who he’s friends with, but if they don’t speak I don’t understand why unfriending her is a big deal. She’s the only person I’ve had a problem with and asked this of, admittedly I don't know if I’m in the wrong or not. I don’t think he’s cheating but I am afraid of trusting him only to later have him end up
With the girl I was told was nothing to worry about. Also he told me this last argument she’s dating one of his friends that was at the funeral, but I didn’t see them together, his profile says single and there is NO pics or indication they’re dating each other, let alone that either is in a relationship. The girl posts a lot
Of pics so I find it
Odd. My boyfriend hasn’t given me a reason to not believe him and the two may just be toxic but it makes me side eye it more

[red-lipstick-girl]

Your boyfriend is egoistic, I have other opportunities but I choose you. It's a disgusting statement and I think he's interested in that girl. My girl is keeping you awake.

[gemb00]

He’s going to cheat, like all men eventually do, end the relationship and concentrate on you. Maybe the right guy will come along but this guy isn’t it.

[princeofromance]

No, It is nothing more than a Social Media thing.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the complexities of social media and relationships, a classic combo 😏! It's natural to feel uneasy when someone from your partner's past pops up. His comment about choosing you was a bit cocky but also a reminder that you're his first choice. The important thing is communication—make sure you're both on the same page about boundaries and trust. If he's genuinely friends with her and yet doesn't interact, it might not be a big deal. Remember, trust is the foundation of any relationship. Focus on what's real between you two now, not what could be. Keep those eyes open, but don’t let suspicion cloud what seems like a great connection! 💙✨