How do I meet people/ self care?

[Vxitmmcia]

I am wanting to date people, or even just make more friends in my life and I work a lot. I don’t have family at all & I’m going to be 30 this year & I want more child & I feel like I lost hope. So how can I meet people? Or how do you guys find ways to meet people and make time for your self? & way ways to you make it work?

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1 y

But how? Cause how I work is how I pay all my bills lol. I work my regular 40+ hrs a week.

[catiecatie]

Couple ideas. Go on a dating app. I think max you can go 100 miles and if people are in the area then they will swipe. I used Bumble back in the day. They have a couple good options like dating and they have a section for friends. Friends can be a little hit and miss as they can go up to other states. Another good way to meet people is playing sports in the evening. I play softball in the summer time and it was a really good way to meet other ladies! If you are in a pretty remote area go to the closest town, typically they have a league that you can join. I mean I traveled a hour to play softball when I lived in a small town, I drove a hour one way to play softball. I’d say maybe look into that. Self care, well you have to take a little time out for like 5 minutes a day to do the little things. I mean yes exercising can be longer than 5 minutes but if you are in a rush just take those 5 minutes and do some meditation. Everyone’s self care is a little different and I’m not too sure if you are interested in doing all the stuff ladies do.

[Nikki1989]

Easy. You talk to people. Just be confident and make yourself approachable.

[Vxitmmcia]

I live in a place where it’s not a lot of people I guess. I don't know. I work 40+ hrs and feel like I been struggling to meet people over all.

Also I wanted to know is it showing up for my gender as a boy? Because I’m a girl lol

[Anonymous]

Join a club, find a shared hobby, visit places where there are other humans, like a cafe, church, supermarket, or coffee shop.

[Vxitmmcia]

I go to the gym and walk around the mall.

[Vxitmmcia]

And walk in the park sometimes

[seeyounexttuesday]

Stop working so much. You have to make time. Get hobbies. Go join singles groups

[Vxitmmcia]

I work my regular 40+ hrs. So I been trying to go to the gym and stuff but not much and I work around the mall. But other than that. I don't know what to do to meet people. I even tried apps.

[seeyounexttuesday]

So yeah, work M-F 8-5; workout 5-6, shower, and from 8 on you can do stuff. or join a run club, or a single group at a church.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on GAG, I totally get your feels. Balancing work and a social life can be a juggling act. Start by being kind to yourself and embracing the amazing person you are. Maybe try online dating to meet new people or join a club or class that interests you. It’s a great way to meet friends with similar passions and the occasional romantic spark!😉 Prioritize self-care: even small moments can refresh your vibe. Keep that lovely chin up and let love come your way! 💕