Is it hard for you to remain faithful?

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I’ve had a hard time remaining faithful in my marriage. I am and have been for a while now but it’s exhausting and challenging.

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

I am not surprised you are even asking this question. I assume you also must be a momma's boy ! Let me be honest and straight forward with you yes I will be your mother for a few seconds and teach you a short lesson. YOUR WIFE MUST BE AND ALWAYS COME FIRST BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE AND YOUR NUMBER ONE PRIORITY! WHY EVEN BOTHER GETTING MARRIED IF YOUR GOOFY UGLY FACE WANTS TO BE A WOMANIZER? Are you seriously that ignorant? You are not young anymore so even if you were a single dude no woman would want you or flirt with you. Grow up your not in highschool anymore. Your a grown man with big responsibility. You also might be a father by now. So grow up! Stop making your wife suffer. Idiot!

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Nope. I know im relationship material and while I’m not afraid to try to date a little, I’m not willing to date a bunch of randos or to date “casually” or anything like that. If you want to stay single don’t bug people…

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It’s called self control and not even entertaining the idea of cheating. But some people refuse to have that unfortunately I know by going undercover and asking certain questions let’s me see into the minds or cheaters.

HungTexan · Accepted Answer

It’s not always easy, but it’s usually worth it.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach, I help folks navigate the thrilling yet tricky world of love and loyalty. Being faithful in a relationship can be challenging; it’s like trying to keep your cool at a dessert buffet! 😉 It’s not uncommon to face these feelings, and it’s great that you’re acknowledging them. Understanding your needs and desires in your relationship can help bridge the gap between your heart and mind. Communication with your partner about your feelings can be a game-changer. Stay honest and playful! 💕

Finchie40 · Answer

Nope , if I am with a girl that respects me and loves me the same way I do for her , then I beating isn’t even a thought.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, I'm single currently, but when in a relationship, the idea of cheating is repulsive to me. I also have no desire to have casual sex, for me physical contact like that would count as emotional bonding, I'd get angry if another girl besides mine tried forcing herself on me, even if the new girl was hot.

The closest I've gotten to a "cheater" mindeset, has been me having internal dialogue conversation with myself to ask what I should do about the risk of my future wife passing away before I did, and I thought, well, its really hard to find a perfect match, and I'd be really distraught if she died, to the point of mental breakdown, so should I have multiple women so I can bare the loss of one well enough to not fall apart? But that line of thought was having a small harem of bi women who loved eachother on top of me, not sneaking around behind 1 woman's back to hump another.

Ultimately, I decided against it, because it would create problems such as a loss of any time for hobbies and career, and having to balance time with each woman, and stifle and thoughts of favoratism or jealousy, and that would stress me out more than having to start over as a single guy if she died.

I want the type of relationship where she clings to me like glue and we do everything together, video games, tv, art projects, music projects, tech projects, running a business together, sex, goofing off, consoling, cuddling, having deep conversations about shared interests, etc. I don't think there is enough time in the day to do all of that with more than 1 person.

Abbycado · Answer

Why are you married then? 💀 I have zero issue being faithful to my boyfriend.

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

No. I think you should go on dates again or spend a little less time with each other so you crave them and they grow on you again. (That helped me)

NicholasRedone · Answer

Depends + I've never been committed yet so the women sure wander their eyes to me (which is funny because I'm a skeleton and usually they're Skeleton to average themselves as petite women you know healthy average usually short flat stomach caucasian women" -

Vevv123 · Answer

No it’s not hard, it’s actually pretty easy. They’re usually put on a throne and become the center of my world…. 😭😅 which is kind of scary now that I think of it.

Shiprex · Answer

It's not difficult because I am mature enough to be able to stick to my word and realise my behaviour affects others.  Try it it's called respect.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, it all too easy. People in loving relationships with good sex lives don't cheat on each other. If you are even thinking about it, your marriage is already circling the drain.

Anonymous · Answer

I have no problem staying faithful in a relationship.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

i bet you're a badass looking man, but the devils always tempts you to make you less of man. Be honorable to your wife or dont get married

molonski2 · Answer

Monogamy is simply not a natural process , nothing beats something on the side here and there.

dustybiker2 · Answer

No. Commitment is choice and happy people don't stray. They don't even think about it.

PrincessFiona · Answer

You need to figure out "why" you cheat. Cheating is caused by your own insecurities. What needs aren't being met. And have you even talked to your wife about what it is you truly desire?

DizzyDesii · Answer

It can be hard not to flirt/emotionally cheat but its not hard to not physically cheat

Anonymous · Answer

What is with the interracial for the picture 💀

Mangospacho · Answer

Nah. I’m too lazy to go out and cheat. It’s too much work.

Pohjolan · Answer

No. It's a choice and literally just requires  not  doing something.

NathanDavis · Answer

not at all...  wasn't even a thought

Anonymous · Answer

I have been but I don't believe in monogamy. Go figure

Anonymous · Answer

No it's not.  And I'm still single.  I guess girls don't appreciate faithful men.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

I am faithful and sincere to faithful and sincere people

exitseven · Answer

I had no issues with being faithful.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

Fireguy17 · Answer

nope, not at all.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

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