Is it that you just don't feel like it, never got the opportunity, your values, what is it that keeps you from being unfaithful. I included both genders to see what things might contribute to faithfulness for both.
I have integrity. I don't cheat because that would undermine my integrity and that is unacceptable to me.
One thing I learned a long time ago is that women want what other women have, just because they have it. I've never been a guy who could attract girls with looks, so I have never gotten that kind of attention, but when I am in a relationship, other women who didn't know I existed will suddenly become very interested. But they aren't REALLY interested in me, they are interested in taking something from another woman. And some will go to nearly any length to do so.
I once put a (fully clothed) drunk girl in my bedroom to sleep it off while I went back to the party to entertain the other guests. When the party was over and we were taking people home who needed rides, I went in to wake her up, and she was naked and did her best to pull me in bed with her. I'm not saying she wouldn't have done that if I was single, but the chances were much lower. The fact that she knew that I had a girlfriend made me much more attractive, because it's a much bigger turn on for most women to steal a man from another woman. But that's not the kind of relationship that would ever last - a girl like that would soon become bored and be looking for someone new.
I won't pretend that I wasn't tempted to take advantage of those situations that came my way, especially when I was younger, but I could always see the big picture and know it wasn't worth it. My integrity is worth far more.
There are many reasons people may not cross that line. Just as there are many reasons people will cross that line.
My friend who I used to talk to when I volunteered at her dad's shop, told me her boyfriend knew there were girls that might be more attractive then her, but he got a bad vibe about those other women. I am similar, my gut instinct goes into panic mode when I consider guys other than my boyfriend, there could be short term potential with those other guys, but not long term potential, especially since I won't kiss until I'm married.
I know, like a weird odd feeling when you think of doing something wrong. It doesn’t feel right.
@Kelley1 pretty much summed it up. I’m not interested in destroying my marriage or values. Matthew Mcconaughey hasn’t asked me to run away with him either! 🤤
Because he's to busy riding his bike with two blond 18 year old girls in Beverly hills
@Batsy01010101 Lucky girls!
This was back in 2020
@Batsy01010101 ok?
I'm here to sprinkle some love magic in your lives! 🪄✨ Faithfulness often comes down to strong values, respect, and that overwhelming love for your partner. When you're in love, you're not even tempted by distractions. It's all about building trust and emotional connection. I'd say it's like having your heart locked in the best kind of prison—and you’re loving every moment of it! 💖
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The only thing you have in life is you
You're word you're intervening your heart. This is what makes you..
you your 1 person in the world of liars. Cheaters. People trying to get over on other people. Starts at government. And goes to us we teach our kids
There has to be something good in this world
I I will bet you anything you wantnto bet. That every person who reads this. If they are honest with themselves they have lied to day one way or another
Integrity and self control is the main thing. You will have opportunities to cheat and you will be tempted at times. But good people immediately shut even the thought of cheating down and it makes them sick.
It starts many times as fantasies, watching pornography, etc. Once that’s not good enough anymore the real cheating begins a lot of times slow. Sometimes soliciting attention form the opposite sex, emotional affairs, and even casual sleeping around.
Cheating literally never even crossed my mind.
If you think about another person in a way that could lead to cheating, then you’re not in love. You’re using people for your own benefit.
Good moral values , being honest and respectful, hoping she does the same for me.
Many things but above all , respect for myself and then respect for my lady. I have to live with me , with my thoughts , with my actions for the rest of my life … forever basically. Why do I want to hurt the woman that adores me? And who I want to spend the rest of my life with?
I just don’t understand anyone that cheats , there is just no excuse. Be single and f*** whomever you want. It would be a betrayal to my character and the man I am and want to keep being.
Respect for yourself is a big one! Exactly! Very very well said!
Cheating is immoral. You sneak behind someone's back because you know they would disapprove. They would be deeply hurt and possibly devastated. But you don't care. All you care about is yourself, your fun and your appetite.
A cheater is worse than a liar. They are more like a thief who steals from a friend who trusts them.
When it comes to marriage, I made a solemn vow, a pledge of honor, a promise. I don't go back on promises. And I would never betray someone who loved, trusted, and pledged their life to me.
If my wife or girlfriend was a real rare stunner ; that said though, I'd constantly be paranoid if someone else was gonna attempt to flirt with her lol 😆 and that's why it's often not worth having a woman who's gorgeous - cause every other man and some women, may want to steal her away and get her number lol 😆 so I steer clear and the real secret is abstaining.
I don't do dating apps, I don't flirt, and I keep to myself - lol 😅 devout religions would be proud of me, you know, because I'm so - "not a drinker, not a smoker, not out there banging away with the ladies (and I'm straight, not the guys either) to cover all bases
Love of my wife.
Cheaters don't love thier significant others. Cheaters aren't capable of loving anyone but them selves. Cheaters aren't human, they are monsters thst exist without empathy, without a soul.
Thank you for your response. You are very kind and your wife is lucky to have someone like you. Glad to see many faithful men that are faithful for the right reasons.
Thank you!
I think if you are satisfied in your situation then it's extremely easy , it's when things go wrong that really tests individuals.
Fear of consequence is the real answer for so many I see , and fear of being alone
From my experience many try to present a moral facade which is not genuinely honest.
I don't look for anything outside of what I have because I can't imagine finding more... i mean yes there are prettier women and ones with better attitudes everything good and bad but mine makes me not want more. My more is her and I don't know how to explain that. It's the trust for me when I have a bad day I know she will make it better because she wants to weather she is having a bad day also or not. We work better together then apart and I accept it's enough to make me happy I guess
In a marriage if it happens without one partner knowing it can get really messy if you have kids even more of a nightmare I would rather just know before it happens then after that so be it but I couldn't do it to my wife and we are currently taking a break
Probably respect more than anything. I respect her and our relationship. She is monogamous, so is our relationship. As long as that respect remains, I will never even consider cheating. If I lose that respect, I hope that I will break up with her before pursuing anyone else.
What keeps me from being unfaithful? The fact that I have pledged my heart and soul to a woman and I would expect nothing less from her. I would feel distraught if she were to cheat upon me 💔 😭
Really happy to see a younger guy that feels this way! I’m sure you will find the perfect wife and create a perfect family with this mentality! I personally am very faithful and usually feel like an uncomfortable gut feeling if I ever even think of cheating or doing something bad. But I think there are many women like me that are faithful.
The easy part is being faithful, the hard part is finding another who has similar future plans. I want to have a wife who will stay at home and take care of the kids while I'm at work and we can go do fun stuff on the weekends but sadly no woman I've seen close to my age wants to put family first instead of a career
That's like asking an honest person why they don't cheat or steal.
You're either honest and faithful - or you're not.
I've met many people over the years and dishonest people are nearly always unfaithful too. It's in their character to always push boundaries and try to get more for doing the bare minimum
I have no interest in being unfaithful. I think if I did, my morals and values would kick in and I’d need to look at why I feel that way, but I’m happy and have no reason to be unfaithful because what I have is amazing ❤️
If I love her, I wouldn't want to hurt her in anyway. I know how I would feel if it was done to me. Being unfaithful is probably the quickest way to destroy a relationship.
Glad to see another man is a thinks this way! Gives me so much more hope ☺️
Thank you.
Honesty, loyalty, the trust needed to keep a relationship alive and the great love we both feel for each other. Besides, I REALLY DON'T think I'd want a 3-way thing, even if she knew about it and was okay with it. One woman is PLENTY for me!! I love her with all my heart and I'M KEEPING HER!!!
I'm naturally loyal, and if I had a girlfriend, I would never cheat on her.
Being unfaithful is really immoral in my opinion.
That's very nice and I'm glad to hear there's men like you out there.
Thanks, I'm glad you agree.
When you truly love and care for someone, you could never cheat. It's the ultimate betrayal. How could you even think about causing that kind of pain and suffering?
That’s great that you feel this way, every man that thinks like you deserves a wonderful wife and family.
My integrity is important to me. Definitely not for a lack of opportunity. Believe me, even my respective exes noted the attention I receive which made some of them uncomfortable and some not worried at all knowing me as they did. Ironically, these same women were the ones who were disloyal.
everyone saying it's "morals" are full of shit. it's because you lack options
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Not really, I’ve had guys hit on me and at least for me I have no interest. There’s nothing better than feeling like your family is the best and those that lack that will never be happy with what they have.
Having morals, communication, and lines i don't cross. If I'm not happy with the relationship that is obviously toxic & abusive, and i know things aren't going to work out, i just pack up my stuff while she is gone, bring it home or to a safe space, then break up with her. Why be petty and/or vindictive to cause more drama and completely avoidable situations. It's stupid to do so. Its called being a mature adult with emotional intelligence & wisdom
My morals and values. If you want to cheat, just end the relationship.
I'm the type of person that when in love or in a committed relationship all other men become invisible to me. I've always been monogamous and wouldn't put myself in situations where I might put my relationship at risk.
Lack of opportunity with exceptional men. It is not often you meet your dream movie star on an NFL QB, and lesser men cannot tempt me.
He has never given me any reason to even consider it, not even for a nanosecond.
I stay faithful because my wife is amazing and I feel grateful to have her in my life. There is nothing I want for in our marriage and I know I couldn't find another women who would treat me like she does and meet my needs the way she does. And I think she would say all the same things about me.
Having said that, it's not like we don't have to work at it. We do, every day. We both make compromises and sacrifices for each other's happiness and satisfaction.
Pretty simple. It's not an option! I would never even consider cheating on her. Because I love her. To cheat on her would be to hurt me as much as her. Some actions can't be fixed. Cheating is one of them. If it ever gets to the point where I feel so disconnected from her that I have to turn to another woman I'm just going to end the relationship.
My morals prevents me from being unfaithful when in a relationship. I don't sleep around (casual sex) when single either. I have a moral code that I live by.
People stay faithful for a few clear reasons. love and respect for their partner, commitment and personal value. If you want to stay faithful, keep honesty, close communication, and healthy boundaries.
I've just never had a desire to be unfaithful.
It always struck me as a huge amount of work, with a high cost for failure, with very little benefit
I despise cheaters and I would dump a guy before I cheat on him. It's egoistic but I have my personal rules.
First of all because it goes against the teachings of god, second because i treat the way i want to be treated and finally it's because it makes me feel comfortable and not hurting other people's feelings...
I have never found it challenging at all, I think being loyal and faithful is just in my nature. I could never think about cheating even while it was happening to me.
integrity, a solid inbuilt sense of loyalty. It's how my brain is wired.
Dont like stress dont want to hurt wife or damage relationship.
Well, for one, I really like her and don’t want to be with anyone else. Also, it would get really expensive if we split up with alamony and child support.
Knowing the difference between right and wrong.
Having character.
Being honest.
I don’t want to.
I feel no need.
I’m with my partner.
I wouldn’t want hurt my partner.
I have self-respect.
My values.
The fear of Moroni denying me entry to his Celestial Kingdom. His wrath is known to all who believe in magic crockery & sacred underwear.
I don't have the desire to cheat in my heart. I'm a Christian woman. God protects me from the influence of this filthy world and their way of thinking.
I took the whole "until death us do part' thing pretty literally
Values. I don't wanna be cheated on si why would I do it to someone else?
Gumption. I'm happy. Stoke happiness with the one you love instead of seeking it elsewhere.
Morality, common sense, LOVE…
Because I know im with the right guy.
Because i hate disloyalty. because its beneath me.
Because im not a cunt
I cheated on my ex when I was 16; the impact I had on her changed me. Haven’t since.
Open communication: I have a husband and a girlfriend, both of whom know about each other.
Because she matters more than my lust.
I'm not immature trash.
A choice not to. No more, no less
Good sex and mutual trust
So without it, you’d be unloyal?
Surely you agree those two things are important to a healthy relationship
Trust is important, sex isn’t so important, I can live without it and would rather get to know someone well first.
I mean, how many relationships and marriages end due to a lack of sex? It does happen a lot.
Values and I love my partner
I just do not have an interest in cheating.
Integrity. Without that I am nothing.
Because I'm not a piece of shit
Having basic morals for starters.
I'm not a piece of shit.
Its simple, Love!
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