Me and my husband are discussing becoming a throuple. Bad idea?

[Date_a_Snob]

[LeatherDame]

In general, if you two date other people together as a couple it usually goes poorly and is called “unicorn hunting”. It almost universally either fizzles out/doesn’t work or blows up in some big way.


Generally the lasting ones happened because two of them were dating and the chemistry/dynamic worked for all three as they got to know each other.


So something like you two dating independently within certain parameters (common ones are using protection or not having penetrative sex) is generally a better strategy if your long term goal is a stable thrupple.

[Date_a_Snob]

It seems to be working so far

[PeachyPie93]

To me it seems like a bad idea.. What if he ends up liking her more and decides to divorce you? Or he knocks her up will you still feel the same way..

[White_Widow]

Can you handle the thought of the two of them being together, hanging out, playing etc when you're not around?

[Date_a_Snob]

Yes I can

[Date_a_Snob]

I'm getting dressed for work and they are both still in bed together

[Valdemort]

It's a bad idea if you can't communicate and aren't on the same page about it.

[Date_a_Snob]

We communicate often

[Valdemort]

Well, yeah, but are you on the same page and do you understand each other. That's important too.
If you think it could work, just go for it.

[Date_a_Snob]

We are and it's working so far

[Date_a_Snob]

Last night was the first time we were all in bed together

[trumpetplayerforlife]

To each their own I just couldn't do it because I don't share lol

[katiesmuff]

Whatever in the hell is that?

[Date_a_Snob]

Bringing another woman into our marriage

[katiesmuff]

Seems like a bad idea to me, but to each his own!

[Date_a_Snob]

We slept together for the first time last night and it worked

[katiesmuff]

Cheers!

[chrissykerdock]

what if he cums in her mouth exclusively

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Depends on the third and who wants them and why

[chrissykerdock]

it won't work

[Date_a_Snob]

Why?

[chrissykerdock]

jealousy will prevail

[Date_a_Snob]

So far it's working

[chrissykerdock]

wait until your husband cums in her mouth more which happend this woman got pissed that her husband was cumming in my mouth as in always

[Date_a_Snob]

I'm getting dressed for work and they are still in had together

[Date_a_Snob]

*in bed together