My girlfriend said this about her manager talking with her friend, the worst part is that deep down deep down if he want I want?

[Anonymous]

She said that as a text message to her friend and i saw it, i face her with it and she saying " i meant in a context like if i haven't met you before ", I don't know what to do she keep apologizing and im ignoring her for almost a week now what you all think about this?

[Finchie40]

Typical selfish females’ that tend to have crushes on their boss-or someone that has a lot of status , sadly to say man , but this type of shit happens a lot unfortunately with females’ because most females’ are drawn to a guys’ status and she thinks he is absolutely amazing , because of his status , but if you take her boss and put him in a lower position and a lower status? . Then she more than likely won’t even acknowledge him whatsoever, so you have every right to feel disrespected in your relationship with her , she doesn’t hate you, but she isn’t in love with you , she just loves the convenience of you , she will hold onto you for convenience. until something better comes along , so if I was you man , I would kick her ass to the curb where she belongs or do the same thing she is doing to you to her and just keep her for a piece of ass until someone better comes along for you , because she is a selfish person that only cares about herself , so you are best to only care about yourself as well. Girls’ like her will never experience true love , because all they care about is themselves , they do not know how to give the same way they want to receive , they just like receiving without giving the same in return, don’t think for a second that she would change her mind , if her boss came onto her , if he came onto her? her legs will spread instantly for him and she will become vulnerable to him without her even thinking about you whatsoever. She might think about you after she gets drilled by him. I been with girls’ that were like this , and I dumped every single one of them. Some a kept around because they were good in bed but that’s all she was good for. Selfish girls’ are not meant for relationships period , they are meant to be used the same way they are using you. If you like having sex with her , then keep her for sex while you are open to meeting someone else as well, as soon as you meet someone else that is better than her , dump her ass immediately , don’t even look at her as a girlfriend anymore because of what she is doing behind your back , she isn’t a girlfriend, she is a user , so treat her the same way she is treating you. One thing I have learned in life with girls’ is to never let a girl write sucker on your head , A loving caring girl will treat you the same way you treat her and make you her King , if you aren’t being treated like a King from her , do not make her your Queen period. Just treat her like the selfish whore she is.

[Summeroflove]

It’s time to break up trust is broken and you’re being inmature I get needing time to process things not a week. You just need to break it off if she wants him she can have him

[HollyK21]

You’re not making any sense my friend. “ Deep down if he want I want,” what’s that mean and why was it so derogatory in your eyes?

[Asker]

She is saying this about another man! We have been together for two years why she still have those feelings to another man? and it's not the first time she talks about her manger with her friend she mentioned him before saying he is cute and handsome, this what made me feel derogated

[HollyK21]

So basically, she told her friend that if her manager wants something then she does too? If that’s the case then yeah dude end it. What’s going on is she’s settling for you but wants other guys. Sad thing is a lot of dudes are good boyfriends, and you are probably a good boyfriend so she doesn’t want to let go of that treatment. At the same time she wants to explore her options with another man and it looks like she’s using you as a placeholder until that happens. I would not even so much as risk being cheated on by her selfish ass if I were you.

[HollyK21]

**a lot of dudes are NOT good boyfriends and you are probably a good boyfriend** is what I meant to write.

[Asker]

" Placeholder " This is the exact way im feeling about this.. Damn relationship for two years are gone.

Thanks for your advice i really appreciate your honest opinion!

[HollyK21]

I feel you dude that was me getting over a 5 year lol but you got this and you deserve better. I wish you luck! ☺️

[Anonymous]

If it was a text message, it couldn't have been that important.

[Asker]

What made her saying that or seeing another man in this way, it's two yeats relationship i never that about in other women since i met mine

[AI Opinion]

Hey there, fabulous relationship expert on board! 🚀 It sounds like you're in quite a pickle. If you’re suspecting red flags or feeling uneasy, communication is key. She might have meant it hypothetically, but leaving her hanging for a week is a tad harsh, love. It’s time to open up and talk this through. If love’s still in the game, you gotta tackle this head-on and see where that conversation leads! 💬❤️ Trust your gut, but don’t let it be clouded by silence.

[BiHubbyFlor]

Sounds like red flags and your girlfriend is over thinking something. Worrying about what she said it might have gotten back to the guy.

Good luck just love her and give her happy things. Move her focus from worrying.

[IslaTheWitch]

ignoring is not fair... move on or break up

[HelpfulWoman]

please seek medical assistance for your stroke

[Asker]

Am i being toxic now? it's not the first time she does things like that, do you really think it's normal?

[HelpfulWoman]

try making sense first

[Asker]

Convince me what was my problem?