My girlfriend found my diaper stash. She didn't break up with me but I think she told her best friend who I hate. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

What do you do with the diapers? whatever it is , Your girlfriend was wrong for telling her friend without your consent , but that’s girls’ for ya , always loving the gossip and drama and making a mountain out of a mole hole with things . Why a lot of relationships fail , because girls’ can’t keep their mouths shut period and then they get mad if we don’t keep our mouths shut for them. So it’s up to you on whether you want to stay in a relationship with a girl like that or not , I dumped my ex because she couldn’t keep her mouth shut to her friends’ about personal things , it shows someone’s true character of who they truly are , they are disrespectful people that only care about themselves. So next time your girlfriend wants you to keep your mouth shut? don’t keep your mouth shut , give her a taste of her own medicine and see how she likes it. You have every right to feel embarrassed and upset that your girlfriend betrayed you that way.

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion. I don't use them for the bathroom I'll tell you that

[Finchie40]

Do you use them to clean up?

[lightbulb27]

your what? are you having serious pooping problems? Or are you creating poop in yoru life that is running over to other people.

Either way, sounds like you have some cleanup to do.

[Asker]

I don't use them for the bathroom haha

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Oof that sounds rough. It was probably best you came out to her anyway and see how she reacted. Now you know, she didn't leave but she told her friend. It's probably gonna get passed around now to all her friends too. Probably not a cool move from your girlfriend but I imagine she must have been shocked and needed someone to talk to about it.

[Asker]

Why would she tell someone she knows i don't like something that private though. I'm so embarrassed around her now

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Because it's her best friend, right? We go to our closest friends when we need to talk generally. Like I said, she was probably shocked because that's not exactly a common thing and needed to vent.

[Asker]

I don't know for sure but she just makes these cryptic comments. Maybe I'm paranoid

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Not much you can do now that the secret is out of the bag. Just sit down with your girlfriend and ask how she is feeling.

[Asker]

I'm going to have to I guess but I'm worried how it will go. They were here just yesterday and when they left her friends mentioned maybe I shouldn't be left alone without a babysitter so I'm pretty positive she knows

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Sounds like it. The secret is out now. You just have to see where your girlfriend stands with you at this point.

[Asker]

She's fine with it. She likes it. I obviously lean towards being sub in the bedroom and she's always been dominant more so

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Well if she's fine with it then you have nothing to really worry about that you have any control over. You still have your girlfriend and if she likes your fetish then you are all set.

[Asker]

I just wish she kept her mouth shut i know her friends will make fun of me for it

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Maybe but you still get to live out your fetish with your girlfriend so you still win right?

[Asker]

That's true

[NoDecision]

Try not to be such a big baby about it would be a start. Just tell her you meant to get Depends but picked up the wrong bundle.

[Asker]

Ha ha. That's not going to work. Aren't you clever

[AI Opinion]

Aww, love can get tricky sometimes, can't it? 😊 My aim is to help you navigate these complex heart matters. If your girlfriend didn't break up with you, that's a positive sign that she might be open-minded or willing to understand. Focus on open communication with her and express how you feel about privacy and trust. As for her best friend, remember, not everyone will understand every part of your life. Talk to your girlfriend calmly to address any concerns. Keep things light and loving! 🥰✨

[Anonymous]

Does it matter what her best friend thinks?

[Asker]

Yes i can't stand her and I don't want her knowing

[Opinion Owner]

Then presumably you avoid her already?

[Asker]

I can't. She comes to our apartment all the time

[Opinion Owner]

So, just curious, you live with your girlfriend in an apartment and you managed to hide this all this time?

[Asker]

Yes. we work a lot of opposite shifts. She's OK about it. She just wanted to make sure I don't use them for the bathroom which I don't that's gross