Do you forgive and forget easily?

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MisterWack · Accepted Answer

Depends on the context.

If my doctor did a procedure or acted in a way that was out of my best interests then I would never forget so I don’t go back to that man or woman that caused such a mess (spoken from experience).

If my elected official didn’t keep their promises and totally didn’t follow the morals / values they showed when I supported them then I wouldn’t forget so I knew damn well not to give them a platform ever again (I speak from experience).

If it were a childhood bully who did me wrong though grew up to be a better person & not the immature loser they once were…. Then I would accept their redemption and be proud of the person they become, I would forgive and forget & wish them well also success (spoken from experience too).

Just food for thought, I will stay with the values and morals I put into this world though you have a right to yours. God Bless!

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Little things yes, if they are apologized for. I'll get over it.

For anything I would consider a larger offence... No. I'm a vindictive motherfucker for sure.

I guess maybe a better way to put it is: If I accept your apology, then yes I can forgive and forget.

If I do not accept your apology. Or no apology was given... then no. I'm vindictive and can totally hold a grudge.

🙂

Vesuvius87 · Accepted Answer

It really depends on what the offense was about. If it's something trivial as forgetting my b-day, I can forgive and forget that. If it's a deliberate act such as cheating on me, stealing from me, lying about serious matters, etc then I can forgive for my own mental health but never forget so that person would be out of my life permanently and blocked on both my phone list and all social medias.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Never. My craving for revenge can lurk deep inside, sleeping, silently waiting for the perfect moment to be served, cold blooded, brutal with all its ruthlessness. Revenge is the sweet privilege of gods, best drugs that exist giving euphoria much stronger than love

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, I've learned that forgiving and forgetting can be a bit like the ultimate relationship yoga pose—requires flexibility and practice! 😄 It's all about the balance between letting go of grudges and protecting your heart from repeated mistakes. Some say love has the power to forgive the unforgivable, but remember to keep an eye out for those red flags! It's important to learn and grow from past experiences, not to let them bog you down. 😊

Summeroflove · Answer

Well it really depends on what it’s over I understand nobody’s perfect so over small things yeah. But if it comes to cheating, abuse, and other things like that I will eventually forgive but it doesn’t mean they will be allowed back into my life.

HawkPerception · Answer

No. I tend to hold grudges. If my partner cheats on me, they're dead to me. If someone insulted or was rude to me, I won't likely forget it and I'll likely get back at them when I get a chance. If someone hurts a loved one, I'll likely get back at them.

I'm not one to just roll over when someone does something negative to me. Eye for eye, tooth for tooth.

DishLady · Answer

Depends what I’m forgiving. Some small silly thing, sure. I pick my battles. Infidelity? Go read the story of Jason and Medea.

Apple1996 · Answer

I'm extremely forgiving but never forget

Purpleronnie · Answer

Forgive.. yes , forgiveness for me to move on , to move past it mentally , to let go of the negativity and bitterness , that shit is cancerous and will eat away at you. Forget? , only in the sense of moving on. It’s never truly forgotten though not should it be.

Screenwriter · Answer

Completely up to what needs to be forgiven and forgotten.

Forgetting Valentine's Day is a goof. Forgetting your SO's birthday, a fuckup.

Forgiving your partner about not getting the spare tire repaired and having a flat, in the city is a pain. But the same issue on a driving vacation when you're going across a dead zone without internet access, could be a nightmare!

It's all about how serious the messup is. Takes longer if the degree of fuckup is deeper.

Samuel75 · Answer

Forgiving has never been my problem because I expect the worst from anybody. But I also have issues remembering things so I easily forgive but the forgetting part always follows since I don't remember much. And I think it's possible to forgive but sometimes it's difficult to forget the pain and scars that was inflicted.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

If everything is solved - yes... if there are things I need to resolve on my own... I will forgive but not forget until everything will be solved

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Never forgive never forget. Death to my enemies. Everyone in this world is my enemy or an enemy to be. Friends are people you know well that will eventually stab you in the back. Love is a commodity to be bought and sold. The only two things people truly love is money and themselves

Blackcat1952 · Answer

Unfortunately I guess I have to. Don't want you Is last year I left somebody Is borrow a hundred eighty dollars. Has not paid me back Is August will be a year . It hurts because I still see I know it's not much but it's the Principle of it . I do have a Promise notice . If I spell that right

Zack-Bann · Answer

I used to be very bad at that im learning to have thicker skin and not feel the need to hold grudges  Of course I also do believe in an eye for an eye when it’s appropriate

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on who it is & what the person has done. Demi did something so horrible back in 2023 that I still haven't been able to forgive her since I don't know if I ever will be able to

She ran off & got engaged to another guy while I was sick with cancer & taking care of my friend who was dying of his own cancer & I was about to be homeless I was at my lowest when she betrayed me so no I don't think I'll ever be able to forgive her for that level of hurt & betrayal

Douglas1180 · Answer

I don't forgive or remember exactly why I hate some people, just know that I hate them and that if I forgive them, I'll hate them again.

CrazyKittyCatLady · Answer

I can forgive but I don't forget if I have been wronged but this depends on the circumstances and what took place.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I may not forgive you. That's irrelevant to me. But I can forget you in a millisecond. That actually accomplishes something worthwhile for me.

Nik1hil · Answer

I can forgive easily, but I never Forget.. Sometimes The lesson I learns Stops me from forgiving them, because Forgiving them opens door for them to repeat that action again!..

Anonymous · Answer

I have a tough time moving on at times. For instance my sister did not have me as a bridesmaids made and I'm still hurt over it. I really am trying to move on from it but it's still hard to accept for me. I didn't get to experience her bachelorette party or get to be a part of the wedding party. I was sectioned was off to the back at the wedding for meal time.

Spencer10 · Answer

I try to forgive... but not forget. Its important to remember what happened and learn from it in my opinion.

hotcrossbunny · Answer

It really depends how big a deal it was. If it's a small misunderstanding then no problem.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Depends on what we're talking about but usually yes. If it's something very bad i don't know. I'd have to have an example to be able to answer better.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Once you cross me a bad way I never forgive. 🚫

Vevv123 · Answer

I might not forget, but I do forgive. There’s no reason to hold on and have grudges.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Forgive? No. Forget? Yes. I tend to cut toxic people out of my life, after I do that I don't really think about them.

NordicInScandinavia · Answer

Forgiveness comes fairly easy to me but I've a hard time forgetting.

NicholasRedone · Answer

@thegreenyogi maybe - maybe not - flip 🙃🙃🤭

elizamichale1 · Answer

I can't really forget quickly but I definitely forgive pretty quickly

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I do actually.. I don't really hold grudges at all.. I like to give people a chance..

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I can forgive quite easily. I won't forget, though :)

Oldschool1981 · Answer

Oh sure, no problem. For example, my wife has a side guy and I'm fine with that

RedThread · Answer

I can forgive but I never forget. I think to do so is a bit naive.

Menace69 · Answer

Forgiving but not forgetting yet depends on the mood

rizzzz007 · Answer

I forgive after sometime because it make me uncomfortable with that person but I never forgive never ever.

Anonymous · Answer

Never ever will I forgive Jennz who played with my feelings and my heart. May she suffer from heartbreaks each and everytime and end alone. 😡

slimshady026 · Answer

Never. Someone who does something once will do it again. You don't have to be a child to understand that.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I am anonymous, I do not forgive, I do not forget.

itsannalee · Answer

I forgive but will never forget

BadApple69 · Answer

Forgive yes…. Forget not at all.

Agape93 · Answer

Not even a bit. I don't forgive or forget.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

It depends on what they’ve done

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'll forgive but I'll never forget.

exitseven · Answer

I forgive fairly easily but I never forget

Grond21 · Answer

Forgetting as a part of forgiveness is a myth

sophie123469 · Answer

It depends on what the person did.

Chargirllll · Answer

Depending on what it is

Anonymous · Answer

I have a very good memory, but I can forgive.

Akashrangwani1997 · Answer

Yeap because there is no sense in holding up

Alexa6 · Answer

Forgive maybe forget no.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

No I dont

Cyrus000 · Answer

Depends

Staximus · Answer

No and no

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes..

foxsquirrell · Answer

Not at all.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Usually

PaleDale · Answer

Yes I do

Eempriyanka · Answer

Never! 🦷🦷

wkhan_87 · Answer

Yesss

eagle1951 · Answer

nope

robocop666 · Answer

Never

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