They thought you'd always be there and now that you're gone, do you want to know how they are suffering?

[sage2021]

https://youtu.be/0_60LzerCa4?si=uWk2Yv_PRC-QrWgq

[Lliam]

Nope. I never had reason to have ill will toward any of my girlfriends. Only one turned into an ass hole, but I don't want her to suffer. She already had enough problems. I just never want to hear about or have any contact with her ever again.

I actually wouldn't mind knowing what some of the others were up to and how their lives turned out.
I'm Facebook friends with my first girlfriend from 10th grade. She's a happy grandma now.
And I miss the one love of my life (aside from my wife). We had reconnected 18 years after I had last seen her and were in contact for 5 years before she died of a sudden medical problem 10 years ago at the age of 55 . I miss her so much.

[sage2021]

@Lliam
Hello!!
I am just curious if you know what caused her demise?
Three days ago a lady who was a caregiver for one of the residents here was in the laundry room doing his laundry and just collapsed! The maintenance guy gave her CPR and the paramedics tried to save her but she didn't make it.
She was only 56, and a happy grandma.
The residents here would like to know what happened to make her suddenly drop like that.
She's been over here twice a week for over a year to help my friends leg condition.
My last encounter with her was two weeks ago when I gave her a very nice calendar and she was so happy to receive it because it was all different flowers and she said that she loves flowers. 🌹

[Lliam]

Esophageal varices.
Basically, a blood vessel burst in her esophagus and suddenly started vomiting blood. Paramedics got her to the hospital but the hospital couldn't stop it and she bled out.

I was afraid that the died frightened and alone, but heard that her mother was there with her.

[Lliam]

Thank you for the MHO, darlin'.

[SteveSmith1985]

No, but I know you've got some damn good reasons to feel that way (if you even do). In some cases, wanting to know they're suffering makes sense, and is perfectly good and right.

Most cases, and my own case. No. I don't think this is good in most cases.

(you... are not most cases OP)

🙂

[FreyaRed]

No. I was just surprised what for butthurt he got after he realized it's not a game. Others didn't even reached that level.

[FreyaRed]

*reach

[LaurenM1997]

Oh he’s not suffering he’s on a dating app loving it!

[Blunky]

I used to a long time ago, perks of growing up in an abusive household. Now I don't really care once I cut someone off. They can be suffering or not, learned something or not, became a better person or not. They made their choices, it's a part of their character. They're irrelevant to my life now and I work on myself to avoid such people in the future. However, that doesn't mean I don't find it entertaining when I hear they're doing worse.

[HungTexan]

I don’t think I’d care, but knowing they are suffering would be a good validation.

[Dongie]

No, I wouldn't want to know either way. Those are best forgotten it seems to me.

[NathanDavis]

I'm always there

[Booboolove69]

Oh yeah… so true

[Anonymous]

If it's over, it's over.