Can you be just friends with mostly people you find physically attractive? Would you be okay with your significant other having that situation?

[Jammaa]

This is hypothetical. When I say significant other, I am talking about a long term committed partner.

If what you and what your significant other can do are different, please explain why.

I can and my significant other also can

I can but my significant other better not

I can't and my significant other better not

I can't but my significant other can

[Stevepro68]

Funny thing is all of my girlfriend... friends are just plain hot she is a retired exotic dancer. Once of them, we've been friends longer than I've been with my girl. Beautiful girl but we're just friends she is just too young. We occasionally hang out. Have lunch or something. This other girl once said she f*** my brains out if we broke up. My girl is aware of that and it was an issue for a little while. Physically she is a younger version of my girl height weight body type... heritage all very similar. I like her she's funny interesting and undeniably sexually attractive. Yet she is just way too young for me. She's only three years older than my 19 year old son and is someone I find funny but exhausting. I really have no interest in that with her. Been 2 years were are all still friends and no I'm not interested. To make the point... my girlfriend, who is as you would expect sexually adventurous, seriously offered a three way type thing with her friend. She thinks she hot too. I said it's just too weird and I wouldn't enjoy that as much as should. We had fun with other women but not this time. So even though I think she is hot and beautiful and I have my girlfriend permission still don't want the drama in my life. I'm lucky to be have my girl and to quote Deadpool her crazy totally matches my crazy and I really just don't want someone else. So we seem to have this situation and it's not a problem. But I understand this is a one off. Most women are not like my girl, and it's different for others.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I choose to just not have friends. At a certain point in life I realized "friends" are people that will just piss me off eventually or get me into a situation, or, I'll piss them off and I probably got them into a situation. I don't consider myself human, but I do like humans so for their sake, I don't fuck with them unless I really need to or have to.

"But D_Bone_Steak, why are you online fucking with humans?" It's not the same thing you stupid bitch. Most of you probably think I'm a fat guy with a small penis, shits on himself, and loves Joe Biden. Why would I give a fuck about you people unless we have had our own heart-to-hearts through our words? "Rizzle me that fuck face" says the rizzler... because I got that rizz yo.

[Anonymous]

When i was younger I used to wrestle the boys in competition and the longer a match went the more I could tell how attracted they were to me, i could feel it up against me. I remember one boy was very big down there, when the match was over I looked at him and I swear it was up past where his belly button would be and thick, and it looked like hed cum singlet from the fricken of wrestling with me. I did hear him gasp and groan and shake a bit on the mat. My parents pulled me out of wrestling after that.

[Nikki1989]

Most of my friends are male and attractive. Most of my husband's friends are female and attractive. We both socialize with all of them. It is never an issue unless you are immature, insecure or both.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to sprinkle some love magic, I can tell you that being friends with someone you find attractive can be tricky, but it’s totally possible. Just keep in mind those little boundaries to keep things clear. As for your significant other being in that situation, it really boils down to trust and mutual understanding in your relationship. If the trust is solid, there's no need to feel threatened. Remember, insecurities are just little gremlins trying to stir up drama. 🧙‍♂️✨ Trust is key, baby!

[hahahmm]

I guess you mean opposite sex. In the old days you weren't friends with the opposite sex. You know back when cheating was a lot less than it is today. And this is still true in circles where people are traditional types. What I noticed in life was that when a woman is really 100% into you she suddenly doesn't need male friends. It's a choice - same as if your'e a guy claiming you need female friends. Yes, I know, single people and people who aren't even 100% committed will scream and kick saying this is wrong. There's a reason why they don't like it but that doesn't make them right. It's like someone who never won a track race telling winners how training isn't important.

[David318578]

Can you be friends? Sure but there is lots of risks.

Girls if you have a really good male friend that wants you, but you friend zoned him. He will do everything in his power to undermine all of your relationships. He wants them all to fail so he is the last man standing.

Anyone that has a close male friend, ask yourself how many times he has told you "he doesn't treat your right" or "you deserve better" or anything else negative about a fight or situation about your boyfriend.. that's all just an attempt to whisper in your ear to leave that guy.

[Darkchild25]

Just because I find someone attractive doesn't mean I have to act on it. Same for women. I fact I've had relationships where we can both find other people and even people of the same gender attractive and we are comfortable in our relationship not to be upset by that.

Just like you have a nice house doesn't mean you can't appreciate other houses or buildings. Or the same could be applied about cars.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't pay much attention to appearances, minds are attractive to me and all my friends attracted me that way... I'm friends with people who are mentally attractive to me...

[__Nikki__]

Absolutely, it doesn't bother me if my husband is friends with attractive people, including attractive women.

[NicholasRedone]

I didn't vote yet I think ; almost impossible

[NicholasRedone]

That's why only my girlfriend would be my attractive partner lol 😜😆

[Oldschool1981]

I'm actually okay if my SO has sex with other guys. It kinda turns me on, so there's literally zero chance I'd become upset over it

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, I can. Because most people I find physically attractive are whores. And they disgust me. So I can easily be just friends with them.

[Anonymous]

A lot of my friends are attractive, but they’re just friends. My boyfriend is the same way. We’ve gotten over the initial jealousy phase.

[DrPepper12]

IDGAF who she's friends with. Makes zero difference.

[retarb]

Most of my female friends are exactly my type. No problems there.

[Eempriyanka]

I've been disillusioned with "attractiveness"

[Anonymous]

I'm usually friend-zoned by physically attractive girls, so I don't have any other choice.

[elizamichale1]

Sure we both can

[PaleDale]

Yes to both