Are you secretive about your sex life with your partner or do you tell your close friends’ about it?

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If you aren’t secretive and you give to much detail , understand that you can possibly be setting yourself up for disaster, because you shouldn’t trust your friends’ 100 percent about things like this , especially if you love your partner and want your relationship with them to last the long haul. You shouldn’t give too much detail about your sex life to your friends because it can backfire on you without you realizing it will , I can’t speak for everyone , but I have witnessed and experienced this a lot of times , to the point it seems like an ongoing thing. People that you thought were truly your friend , might not think that way about you , and can easily go behind your back and say things about your partner to their other friends’ behind your back. I notice when girls’ talk about their partners’ penis size of how amazing he is in bed , other girls’ could possibly chase after him as well, without you knowing. This has happened to me a handful of times and I witnessed it happening to others as well. So people you think are your friends’ might not think that way about you? Have you ever experienced this or witness this happening?

Stevepro68 · Accepted Answer

My friends know my partner was a SW. She's not shy about it. I cannot share the slightest bit with them because they are obsessed with her possible skills, friends, experiences I have had. It's creepy and I tell them back off. "No I won't set you up with her girlfriend." Yet there are odd situations where you have a hot girlfriend that gives you cred.
Tuesday we went on a triple date with friends. And her friends call her and want to meet at her old club. It ended up being 4 couples there. We were supposed to leave but we had 2 many drinks. My long time best friends wife was like have you ever had a dance with these girls that know my girlfriend. I don't say anything, but my girlfriend who had to much to drink says no but we once all fooled around together. Answering for me. My two male friends were like you are a god. Caroline was like you aren't hanging out with me alone. To be truthful If she didn't mention it I wouldn't. But of course it is hugely ego inflating.

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

I'm pretty secretive. I'm not a details giving guy at all.

The way I figure it: If you don't kiss-and-tell, then people aren't afraid to let loose sexually. She knows I'm not going to talk about whatever we get up to. It lets everybody chill and be as freaky as they truly are; without worrying anybody's going to hear about it.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Never tell anyone about my sexual encounters with the man I love. That's very private between him and myself. My late boyfriend emphasized for us to keep our love life private just between us ❣️

MemeSupreme · Accepted Answer

secretive bc it's none of their business like that's our privacy and not just mine. only reason i'd spill something is if i needed input but it'd be about JUST ME.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach here on Girls Ask Guys, I get to hear all sorts of stories about what happens when a bit *too* much is shared. 🕵️‍♂️ It's tempting to dish all the juicy details, but it's like opening Pandora's Box. Talking about how your partner's a superstar in bed might just spark curiosity in the wrong way among friends. 🙈 Keeping some things private is often a smart move to protect your relationship. Sometimes, silence can be golden!

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't share my love life with anyone... except my partner.

Crimsyjo · Answer

I think it could backfire if you say negative things for sure. But that says more about your "friend" than anything else. Because a true friend is one you should he able to confide in.

lucas262 · Answer

My brother wanted to show me pics of his exs tits, I declined, iv never asked about any of my friends sex lives out of respect for them. And never thought about their girls sexually. Never tried to get with them when they became an ex either. Likewise I won't give details of my sex life to them, only she and I need to know those things

chrissykerdock · Answer

i tell no one because people don't understand

NathanDavis · Answer

it's not really that I am secretive about it... it's just none of their business in the first place... lmao...

Purpleronnie · Answer

I have never offered any detail of my sex life whatsoever to friends , and never would. What would be the motivation in that? It’s completely disrespectful to her and nothing to do with anyone but us.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

As introvert I usually keep all of my private life private. If I wanted applause, I would have joined the circus.

Chartreux · Answer

My sex life is so secret because it doesn't exists.

Bricealan · Answer

@finchie40 I don't discuss my sex life, present or past, with anyone except my current partner and only, IF THEY ARE CURIOUS.

Shiprex · Answer

I think any discourse with "friends" about intimate partners is toxic and wrong. Don't do this.

HungTexan · Answer

It’s personal and I keep it to myself for the most part.

DrPepper12 · Answer

I don't know. No one really asks or cares except my doctor once a year 🤪  High School was a little different... 😳

RedThread · Answer

Yes I don't share any of my sex life with my friends. That would always stay between my partner and I.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I wouldn't say I'm secretive at all... it's just none of my friends' business.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Actually I’m rarely that direct in person, maybe with only one or two other people, and even that’s mostly innuendo

weirdguy20201 · Answer

I do tell some things, in my friend circle, once even described how my girlfriend is in bed, they all say she's way hotter than anyone and my luck is insane

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

if i had one, i wouldn't tell anyone ab it, thats disgusting

Kelly6 · Answer

@finchie40 im open and tell everything

RavVid · Answer

Secretive. Girls tend to tell all not guys.

exitseven · Answer

I never told anybody about anything.

kat1212 · Answer

secretive for sure

Despina6 · Answer

Only admit to what is asked.

jazzyk777 · Answer

secretive

rachel776 · Answer

my sister

Anonymous · Answer

No more than her.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I actually don't have a sex life

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