I grew up my whole life and it messed me up so much where I having internal phobia and internal misogyny for myself but when I started talking to him, I was 100 kg and I was planning to lose weight with protein and working out and working out three times a week, he kept pressuring me to be in a relationship with him. I refused because I didn’t feel comfortable being in a relationship being fat which is quite valid.
However, he didn’t really mind though his action said otherwise and I kinda believed his actions over his words and he kept saying it’s okay it’s fine you know you’re losing weight. It doesn’t really matter but I didn’t feel comfortable so I broke up with him three months after dating.
He kept saying to me it’s fine like just because you don’t fit my country beauty standard or the fact that you’re bigger than me doesn’t mean anything he kept showing me. I felt insecure I hated myself so then my mum found out and she made me break up with him and told me why are you not? Religious? Do not believe in this XYZ religion and I said no she end up yelling at me saying to me, I would have to else I would be kicked out so I end up converting and broke up with him and changed my SIM card. She told me to change my Sim card and told me give me your phone you’re not allowed to use your phone for a whole month.
Did I tell him that I was fat? Yes couple of weeks after because I didn’t feel comfortable I didn’t feel comfortable being a relationship being fat.
However, he called me an unnecessary lazy pathetic bastard for still being fat and told him to get the fuck out because he suffered anxiety with the break up, but I didn’t really get it because I had such a low self-esteem. I don’t know if I’m the asshole.
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