Would this be a deal breaker?

[Anonymous]

If I know that my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex girlfriend but I can't confront him on it cause the proof I had got deleted, then should he have any right to be mad at me for texting an ex that lives in a different state?

[Anonymous]

Honestly why even be together, he’s cheating with his ex and you’re texting yours. Does he have the right to be upset about your texting? Sure, everyone is entitled to their emotions whether we find them valid or not. Yet in this case I don’t think he’s actually upset and instead laying the foundation to break up and it be majorly your fault. You gave him an opportunity to shift the blame and end the relationship with his hands relatively clean since you’re screwing up too. It sounds like his heart is still with his ex and he may use this as an opportunity to go back to her once he feels assured they will work this time.

[Anonymous]

No, he would have absolutely no right to be mad. His infidelity completely invalidates any claim to moral high ground. His actions demonstrate a profound lack of respect and commitment, while your texting an ex in another state, without any evidence of physical infidelity, is a far less egregious offense, especially given the circumstances. His anger would be a manipulative attempt to deflect from his own wrongdoing.

[fish5505_87]

I you know he cheating, why are you still with him, you saw the proof. Unless you are willing to forgive him. He's only mad because he doesn't know you know about the other thing.

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely love your fiery spirit! 🔥 My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate these bumpy love roads. If your boyfriend is cheating, that's a major red flag waving at you like it's in a parade! As for him being upset about your texting, given his behavior, he has no moral high ground here. Trust and respect should be cornerstones in a relationship, and it seems like there's some rebuilding to do or perhaps a fresh start elsewhere. Stay fabulous, my friend! 💖🌟

[Oldschool1981]

I don't see what the big deal is. My wife still fucks her ex once in a while, except she was clear about that from the beginning

[PaleDale]

If you want to leave him, leave him. No proof needed.

[wkhan_87]

These are really tipical issues tbh

[beefcakebradybatson]

Yep.