- 2 mo
I'll date a wide range of ages, but statistically my partners have been:
More than 5 years older: less than 2%
1-5 years older: ~5%
Within a year of my age +/-: ~30%
1-5 years younger: ~60%
More than 5 years younger: ~5%
The statistics are a little deceiving though, because of the or so relationships I've had that lasted over a year, about half of them were with women more than 5 years younger than me. So even though it's a smaller percentage of who I've fallen in love with, the relationships tend to be longer (deeper). My current gfs of 15 years (32f) and 3 years (24f) both fall in that category.
Why? It feels like a natural dynamic to me. Even with older women I've dated, I tend to have a more nurturing or protective nature, supportive. With a younger woman, it's almost more so?
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- 2 mo
Truth is, I couldn't care less what the age is. However, I'm still at the point in my life where I want kids of my own, so I have to take that into account.
Younger girls tend to have less negative experiences in their lives which makes them less jaded. They also generally have better bodies because their bodies have been physically active more recently. Metabolism slows down when you stop putting effort into physical activity and women in their 30s and up tend to (not always) make excuses for a lack of physical activity.
Older women CAN be more mature and know what they want in life.00 Reply
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I like the same age, or a little younger reason being I don't need a father figure or someone trying to tell me what to do.. I ALWAYS hated when someone would tell me to do something when I was already gonna do it.. it's like shut the fuck up.. Plus I think I am immature for my age since I don't really like to mingle with other people, so I don't get the proper socialization needed to develop properly lol.
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@ManOnFire Well thanks, I appreciate that lol
2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Either one (within a 5-year radius) as long as they're emotionally mature.
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Helping everyone navigate the love labyrinth is what I do! 😉 Whether you prefer younger or older partners might just be about what tickles your fancy or where you vibe the most. Some people enjoy the wisdom and experience older partners bring, while others are all about the youthful energy of a younger partner. It's all good, as long as it makes your heart do a happy dance! 💃 Remember, love is about connection, not just age. 🥰
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3.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I like younger but age doesnât really matter to me if her and I have great chemistry and connection together and we are both attracted to each other , now I wouldnât date a girl that was under legal age of consent , because iâm not stupid or desperate but overall age doesnât really determine my attraction or connection with someone
10 Reply1.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I prefer men a few years younger than me and women a few years older
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@ManOnFire yesss I'm bi lol
7.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. From my perspective, a woman older than me is much more likely to be out of the labor force before I will be, and that's a problem.
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Younger has advantages... keeps me acting younger.
But age really doesn't matter.
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When i was younger i preferred younger but not a deal breaker. I attracted ladies older than me but not older than 25.
Now i am 50 soi prefer younger, luckily younger are attracted to me. Similarly users here: little n trumpet n you beauty prefer older men.
00 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I-prefer younger but close to the same age. I got into my first relationship when I was 16. All my girlfriends were 1 to 3 years younger, except for one who was 30 and I was 36 when we met - a 6 year difference. She and I lived together for two years and got along wonderfully.
My wife is 2.5 years younger.00 Reply- 2 mo
I have always dated older women. This is likely because my parents were older when I was born, so their friends' children tended to be older than I was, so I viewed those children as contemporaries even though they were usually at least 5-10 years older.
Also, I have been called an "old soul" because my musical tastes, mostly from my dad, tend towards bands and artists from the late 1960's, 1970's and 1980's, as well as classical.20 Reply - 2 mo
Up till around 22 I was constantly dating older. From 23 forward I mostly dated younger. There have been a few times they were my age or older. However, the older I get the stranger the women 40 and over have become. Rather, the bigger boozers they have become. Itâs a shit showâŠ
00 Reply 638 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Older please. Women significantly older than me tend to carry a very great sex appeal because of the way they carry themselves and their understanding of life and people.
10 Reply939 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I have never been with a man that was older than me or even the same age. Younger guys always asked me out never an older one.
I used to tell people that I like the younger guys because I like their tight skin, but it was just a joke. 🤣🤣10 Reply8.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I have always been with older. Even my first boyfriend at the age of 12 was almost 3 years older. Most men are immature brats until they are at least 30 and even then, some never grow up.
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I think the more pertinent question is not the age of the female - as much as the ânumber of miles on the clockâ.
Personally, and this is purely my personal opinion, I like females who are well worn in. One which has been bred 3 or 4 times - loose pussy, tight anus - a lot more fun and train them well and older females do you bidding without question.00 Reply - 2 mo
I've never had a partner younger than me or even similarly aged.
However, I can at least say that I've had suitors older than me but we just didn't click.
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2 moI'm just about six years older than my wife. I'd originally wanted to be with someone who was within two to three years of me.
00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Younger men are physically more attractive but have bad personnality and no want to settle down préférence is around my age
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Naive young girls are the best! I can mold them and shape them to my liking. Like young little puppies they handle training well.
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đ u can only mold dumb people like this
- 2 mo
I totally disagree - you can very easily train a female to be as you want, mentally and physically - it is a females innate behavior to be submissive.
The older the female the harder the training but it is always possible. - 2 mo
U can only control someone who is interested in u. But this interest will not gonna stay longer. Once they lost interest in u. They will not be submissive anymore. They will look for someone else and end up being submissive to that person instead. Women often mention this dynamic too - the concept of black cat and golden retriever energy. Both genders desire some level of control over one another. Yet, this controlling behavior is not sustainable over the long haul. For a relationship to thrive, numerous sacrifices and compromises are necessary.
- 2 mo
Training someone is just controlling someone. It will not be successful in the long run.
Both partners (one who is controlling , one who is controlled) will lose interest in each other after sometime.
It doesn't matter, How much a person is naive. It's still not gonna work in long run.
Best example - Priscilla and elvis - 2 mo
Such little faith. Are you always this pessimistic?
- 2 mo
It's not about faith or being pessimistic, u are completely wrong. It's reality. Mostly people who try to control others are manipulative, have trauma and are dealing with mental issues , same with people who love to get controlled. It's bitter but it's truth.
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I suppose you're right. Just keep in mind there's a fine line between controlling and leading. And who the hell wants to follow someone without scars.
- 2 mo
Older. I prefer more mature people who know how to use their brain
10 Reply - 2 mo
Older coz of more stability n maturity n older guys know well what they r doing unlike young ones
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In the past I've liked younger but now that im a little older I've been gravitating towards older. I mean I'd still date a younger girl but older women just seem to know what they want and play less games
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Around my age would be ideal. Younger is fine too. Depends on how well we get along and mutual understanding and mutual trust.
00 Reply 444 opinions shared on Relationships topic. - My choice is first option.
- If someone older then me with attractive body, surely will choice for me.
00 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)2 mo
If you like 50 or 60 year old dudes, go for it. If you need the money bad then move up to 70 or 80 year old dudes who are kicking the bucket. Good luck on that 👍
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No I like dudes who is 1-2 years older than me , not more than that
Old or younger itâs just a number. The most important is comfort each other. Perfect wonât exist.
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My mom is a year and 24 days older than my dad. Married almost 40 years (in August, it'll be 40). Happily married, with a child.
Please stop with the "guy must be older, shit"
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same age partner, one year over or under and i dont like it
10 Reply - 2 mo
I date exclusively younger women. They are less jaded, More horny, less bitchy. So yeah. I prefer my women much younger than me
10 Reply - 2 mo
Now that I am older, I prefer younger, when I was younger, a little older! It sounded good.
10 Reply Younger always 18 to 24 for sex is prime for both men and women
10 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Younger. I want kids and women my age are finishing up with having kids.
10 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. My girlfriend is older, but age is not a big consideration for me.
00 Reply- Anonymous(45 Plus)2 mo
Younger. Because women over 40 are kind of gross looking.
10 Reply - 2 mo
Love me an older man specially blue collar
20 Reply I don't like old women.
10 Reply381 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I like them younger then me
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My wife is 20 years younger
00 Reply 6.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Younger. Anyone older than me would be on Medicare
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I'm on team younger at this point in my life
00 Reply 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. @Beautifuldisaster21 i like young guys
10 Reply- 2 mo
Only younger by at least 15 years
00 Reply I can't choose, i like both
00 ReplyYounger they makes feel younger and not think old.
00 ReplyMy wife is almost my same age.
11 Reply- 2 mo
Older, with money.
12 Reply- 2 mo
That's my type too hehe
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@Vesperthesiren That's most young girls
- Anonymous(36-45)2 mo
I would prefer younger girlfriend.
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Depends on the person.
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Younger partner 19-20
00 Reply 10.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Younger
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My age.
10 Reply - 2 mo
Much younger
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