Is Telegram Used for Cheating?

[Anonymous]

My sister downloaded Telegram and saw my husband had it. His last activity? February the same time he went on a "work trip" with his buddy. He shaved down there for the trip (which he never does) and said it was for "hygiene." That night, they hit bars and house parties, and we fought at midnight because something felt off.
Why would he need Telegram if he could just delete messages? And why stop using it right after the trip? Am I overthinking, or is this suspicious?

[SteveSmith1985]

So before I read the description, I was coming to tell you about how people use telegram for other things aside from cheating. None of that is necessary. This is maybe the most suspicious shit I've ever heard.

I do not think you are overthinking this. This is beyond suspicious. The timing with the telegram and the work trip. But you know what makes it a no-doubt situation?

If this dude doesn't usually "shave down there" for hygiene, him doing so just before a work trip is extremely suspicious.

Why would he suddenly do that? What are the odds it was just before a work trip? Extremely suspicious even on its own.

Coupled with the suspiciously timed use of telegram... this is quite clear.

I'm going to very strongly tell you; I think your suspicions is very well founded. I'm sorry.

[Finchie40]

It can be , I know people that use it that are up to no good on it , so it sounds like your husband is clearly being up to no good , because there is no other reason why he would be using Telegram when he can just text from his phone. Snapchat and WhatsApp is other appa cheaters use as well

[Finchie40]

I had one years ago that worked really good , How much does this one cost?

[FreyaRed]

Telegram cooperates with FSB (Russian CIA). Maybe they are Russian sleepers?

[Nikki1989]

Any website or messaging app can be used for cheating.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to give you some perspective. Telegram, like any app, can be innocent or not, depending on the user's intent. A sudden focus on "hygiene" and app activity coincidences certainly raise eyebrows, especially with those midnight arguments. Trust and communication are your best allies here. Have an open chat with him! 🚀 But keep those red flags in mind, as they're important signals. Trust your gut; it’s got some solid instincts! 💌

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[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Why not ask him? It's possible that he got the app because someone else asked him to, and then he used it once and forgot about it. I've done that.

If I was going to use an app for cheating on my wife, I probably wouldn't use my real name. If your sister found him, that PROBABLY means he wasn't doing anything sneaky.

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[comedy]

I get why you’d feel suspicious, but honestly, this doesn’t look good. The fact that he used Telegram (which is known for its privacy features) and stopped using it right after the trip feels like he’s trying to hide something. The whole “hygiene” excuse for shaving is just an attempt to cover up his actions. If you’re feeling off, trust that feeling. It's better to face the truth, no matter how painful it may be.

[JesseP1nk]

Look. Anyone can cheat whenever they want. Cheaters dont need app to do it. It is question of his values. Is he type of person who would cheat on you? If answer is "Yes" then question becomes why are you with this person.

Honestly, he shaved down there for the trip... Why now? Whom he planned to show it? :-/

[beams]

You're not overthinking it is suspicious. Telegram is often used for privacy, and the timing, behavior changes, and secrecy raise red flags. I’d trust your instincts. You deserve honesty, so ask him directly. Don’t ignore what your gut is telling you.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I bet it is... I only get told to use it when I'm trying to fuck hookers and cheating women.

[shortster]

It can be. Him manscaping is more indictive of cheating, though. Also you should tell him that leaving the hair down there is more hygienic as you serve him divorce papers.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds pretty suspicious. The fact he used Telegram is the least of it lol

[daddy]

You're right to be suspicious, by the way, because I (I'm not married) sometimes use Telegram to flirt.

[EzraIsShy76028]

People are cheaters. It's not the fault of the app. Every and any app ever could be used for cheating.

[DrPepper12]

That's more red flags than a Chinese military parade!! He's checking

[Lilly1979]

Yea from what saw on Reddit that and snap chat they deleted message. I saw doing research on cheaters.

[Valdemort]

In my experience, a lot of times: yes.

[Anonymous]

Are you suspecting against your real sister?
Omg

[Agape93]

Yeap. Same with any platform

[Ariesman81]

I envoke bro code

[Anonymous]

It can be used as a hookup app

[QuietRunner]

by the Russians yes

[EmmiL]

@QuietRunner or by you

[QuietRunner]

@EmmiL oh shots fired