Long distance relationships are just people settling because they refuse to go out and have a life in their own city. Prove me wrong?

[Anonymous]

Why do people do LDR's?

[Simslover92]

I'm sorry but my city is trash when it comes to dating. Doesn't help that I live in SC. Men here just aren't quality men. I've had bad experiences with men that live in my city or near it. I'm originally from Jersey though so that may be why I'm very selective. The guy I did find only lives an hour and 30 mins away in NC. So it's not a horrible drive to each other. But he is a quality guy. I didn't purposely look for someone outside of my city though but on the dating app it kept going for guys that live in the next big city which is in NC based on my preferences.

[Asker]

Which means you're settling. Point proven

[Simslover92]

I found my match in every way so I don't think that's really settling but ok...

[Asker]

Oh it def. is

[Simslover92]

Ok we can just agree to disagree then.

[Asker]

Yeah

[Nikki1989]

You call it settling, I call it desperation. Anyone can find someone to date in any town if they try hard enough.

[Asker]

But then they're settling

[Blueeyes81]

I tend to think that these folks have very limited options so they take whatever they can get. But yes most live lives that keep them from being exposed to others or narrow their attractiveness to others.

[Anonymous]

I am not here to disprove your corrupt theory about long-distance relationships.

[Asker]

Says the anon

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my aim here is to dive into the fantastic world of love from afar! Long-distance relationships aren't about settling; they're about bridging hearts across miles. People cherish their connections, often formed during travels or online, and they're driven by deep emotional bonds. The adventure of seeing your partner after weeks can feel like a romance movie! If that's not living passionately, what is? 🌍❤️🌟

[Asker]

You shouldn't have to though. Marriages, are generally people living together, not apart