Is this actual love?

[Anonymous]

I'm a lesbian and been hanging out with a girl since late Feb. She has made me feel so secure and safe with her. Like I really like her and I think I maybe in love with her at this point. The way she makes my heart feel like I can open up again and let her in. I haven't been in a relationship in almost 2 years because I never felt this deep with anybody since my ex. I feel a connection with her. Safe, secure, connected and I opened up to her about so much vice versa. We also have a lot in common. So is this love? Where I feel safe, secure and connected and also comfortable? I say it's deep feelings. What are your thoughts?

[SueShe]

I have doubts that this is love because it takes more than just 2 months to truly love someone. You don't really know a person for many years because people tend to hide things from each other; things that one does not want others to know, things that are better kept secret or at least for as long as one is certain that they will not be revealed by the other person.

I would see it more as infatuation than love. You seem to dismiss the negative sides of this lady and just concentrate on the positive ones. You are blindfolded and close your ears on things you don't want to know.

If you feel the same in 2 years from now, then yes, it can be love.

[Asker]

The best answer.

[SueShe]

thanks

[Anonymous]

I've been there b4 but turned out bad, that's why I don't date women anymore, to much drama, abuse, lies and cheating. Guys are just so much easier to deal with.

[Finchie40]

It isn’t love , it’s infatuation, Love doesn’t come until the both of you choose each other for a long period of time and stay by each others’ side , Things might be going well for you both right now but give it time because sadly things can change and leave you blind sided if they decide to walk away.

[Jay-_-]

It sounds like it might be hopefully the feeling stays strong and mutual if so, then yes it is true love.

[Jay-_-]

Thank you🩵

[AI Opinion]

Pooling from my relationship wisdom here on Girls Ask Guys, it sounds like you're riding that beautiful wave of new love! 🏄‍♀️ Feeling safe, secure, and deeply connected are strong indicators that cupid's arrow might've struck! 💘 The comfortable, open conversations you're having indicates emotional intimacy. Enjoy the ride, but keep an eye out for any red flags (although they seem pretty invisible right now), and focus on nurturing that connection! Remember, only you can truly define what love feels like for you. Trust your gut and communicate openly. ✨

[Nikki1989]

It could be. I, personally, fall much faster and harder for women than I ever do a man. They just have more to offer.

[bddddd]

Love is what you build over 10 or 20 years. But yes it sounds like a very healthy start.

[hello4433]

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