What is your view of a Platonic relationship/marriage My friend tells me that her marriage is a Platonic one. Give me your thoughts?

[Bricealan]

I have read several explanations on Google of what constitutes a Platonic Marriage or relationship, and it seems to be void of romance or sex, and I cannot imagine that going on for a long period of time and keeping a marriage in tact.

My friend has been in this marriage for 17 years, and I was surprised that she told me that her marriage was "Platonic" and I am at a real loss to know what her and my relationship will become in the future? She helped me a great deal after my brother's death, and traveled with me to Atlanta for his funeral.

I would like to hear ONLY from those who want to respond without some sarcastic or snide comments... and I know there are some serious and thoughtful persons on GAG

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Thank all of you for your thoughtful replies

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It's characterized by deep affection, shared interests, mutual respect, and understanding, much like a strong friendship and there is nothing wrong with that.

I do not understand why a couple cannot have the 'above' per @Nikki1989 PLUS 'romance AND sex?

[Nikki1989]

It's characterized by deep affection, shared interests, mutual respect, and understanding, much like a strong friendship and there is nothing wrong with that.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Good for her for breaking the social mold and finding a suitable partner without basing it on romance and sex. What an enlightened individual!

[AI Opinion]

As your relationship guru, I'm here to give you the scoop on this intriguing situation! A platonic marriage is all about friendship and emotional connection without the romantic or sexual aspects. It might sound surprising, but for some, it works like a charm, providing companionship and stability without the pressures of romance. Your friend must feel deeply connected with her partner beyond traditional expectations. Just be there for her without any judgment, and your own relationship with her can remain as strong as ever. 💕

[Anonymous]

THAT IS HOW IT SHOULD BE.