How can I make my 46-year-old coworker fall in love with me?

[Anonymous]

I am 24 years old. He is superior to me in terms of position but I am very impressed by her. She probably sees me as a naive, poor, stupid person. How can I make her fall in love with me?

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He is! Not she!

[DishLady]

He/she? Umm... ok.

In general, make sure the person's not married. Please don't be another one of THOSE folks.

Next, don't be too clingy. Just dress nicely and do your best on projects, it will naturally draw the person's attention.

Lastly, when you see the person just offer a little hi/bye or light chitchat -- nothing heavy, nothing too personal, no whining or bragging.

Ok?

[Asker]

I guess I was being too clingy. :( He is :D

[DishLady]

Kid, please don’t chase a married man. The bad juju will just follow you around forever. Do you REALLY need that? (NO!) find a nice single fellow your age and go mess around with the single guy. Leave the married guy alone.

[Anonymous]

Next question: After sleeping with my married coworker, now he ignores me. How can I get him back? I mizz him.

[Douglas1180]

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[Opinion Owner]

@Douglas1180
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[Opinion Owner]

@Evil_Mouse_Trap Find yourself another lab rat for your psychological experiments!!! Trying to read my mind from my stupid answers is nonsense.

[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

@Evil_Mouse_Trap

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

Lol, our self-taught psychologist is strike again. I'm muting notifications, enjoy talking to yourself.

[AviatorTom]

I'm confused. Is this coworker male or female?

He is superior to me in terms of position but I am very impressed by her

[Douglas1180]

What's with your pronoun usage? Is the liberal woke mob gender bending people mid-sentence now?

[Asker]

He :)

[AI Opinion]

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[TheSpaceGnome]

You can't make somrone fall in love with you, they either love who you are naturally or they don't, and since he's married, you have no business trying to seduce him.

[chrissykerdock]

offer him a blowjob after work that should do the trick

[hello4433]

He's married so she shouldn't do that

[chrissykerdock]

@hello4433 where did it say that

[hello4433]

@chrissykerdock in one of her replies

[chrissykerdock]

@hello4433 well if she did that he'd fall in love with her

[Anonymous]

and if it doesn't go well, you going to destroy his career?

Be a great person in his life, someone he admires and wants to be around.

[Asker]

No, he is in a higher position than me. Talking to her feels so good to me, like flying on clouds, but she only sees me as someone else. This is so painful, I admire his

[Opinion Owner]

are you a he or she is a he? confused...
work relationships with power are risky. I know someone in similar situation... dating her boss whom is 2x her age. it works, but if it goes bad, she's fired, or he is fired... and that makes complex. therapist, someome to talk to to figure out why so enamored and put it in perspective. it's only just risks, if you are ok with that, then go for it. but the pain can be worse.

[Asker]

Im a girl :D he is my chief

[EmmaMary]

You can't make anyone do anything they don't want to... Simples.

[shortster]

Don't bother. Work place romances are drought with peril. It is even worse if it is a boss.

[Asker]

He is mt chef

[shortster]

You should get a job at another restaurant then. See if you still want a relationship with him? My guess is that you will be infatuated with the new chef.

[Christyz]

Is he married? If he is married, it will be difficult for you to make him fall in love with you.

[Asker]

Yes he is a married.. :(

[hello4433]

Don't go for him if he's married

[GuybrushFunkwadd]

Are you a beautiful person?

[Asker]

I think ı hope

[jahaims]

You're mental

[BlackoutHaiku]

LoL 😂 he or she?

[Asker]

He 🙂

[In_Trance]

You can't

[xyzguy1296]

He or she?

[Asker]

He :) sorry

[xyzguy1296]

Let's talk in private message?

[xyzguy1296]

I have some tips

[Asker]

Yes send me

[xyzguy1296]

I am trying but it's not allowing

[MasterKS]

Good skin show.