Is a rebound relationship the same as if she had a crush? No contact?

[Anonymous]

We heard about the no contact rule, not as i am waiting for something but i wanted to know what if she has a crush on someone? Is that worse than a rebound relationship or what?
Coz i had gone cold with her for a few months until she got a crush on someone and blamed me because i was neglecting.. which is true my fault..

But i apologized and showed her that i had things going on and how much i love her and going to change..
she's open for me trying to show her my love and said to try to bring back her feelings fore but i told her i can't since u have a crush.
. than i went no contact after that and its been 20 days.. she called and texted me if something happened to me because im not picking the phone.. and i ignored that..

Im not waiting im just asking if the crush is worse than a rebound

[Finchie40]

No a rebound relationship is just someone that is afraid of being alone , so they hurry up and rush into a relationship with someone else without looking at the big picture. A crush is just being into someone , but it doesn’t mean anything unless the person they are crushing on likes them the same way. If not? They are shit out of luck

[Asker]

So ur saying there is still a chance for her to miss us or feel something? Since she had feelings for me it can grow back? Even of she has a crush?
Again im not being desperate but i just want to know

[Finchie40]

If she is crushing on someone else other than you? Then that’s up to you on whether you want to be an option for her or not? Me personally wouldn’t wait for a girl that wasn’t crushing on me first because I don’t just want to be her option , just because her crush didn’t go as she wanted it to. But that’s just how I look at things , because if she really wanted to be with me , than I would be her top priority. And her first choice, not her second. So if I was you , I would still keep my options opened and show interest on other girls’ as well, if she finally decides she wants to be with me? Then it’s up to her on whether she wants to pursue me or not , and it’s my decision, if I want to date her or not. From my own personal experiences with girls’ it’s wise for you to never be a girls’ convenience, because once you are a convenience or a back up plan for a girl , you are selling yourself short of actually finding yourself a girl, that actually makes you her top priority over everyone else. Finding that kind of girl is wise because you are her first choice, not her second choice , Second choice girls’ are only good for one thing? Sex , but not commitment. Never commit not a girl that makes you her second choice period.

[Asker]

Thank you for the time to reply.

[Summeroflove]

It doesn’t matter if she ended the relationship leave it be if she wants to come back she will on her own. Move on I don’t know what she’s doing I think rebounds sometimes end up worse though because sometimes people get too deep into another relationship too fast.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love triangles, right? 😄 Rebounds and crushes can definitely complicate things. A crush often means she's genuinely drawn to someone new, which could be more intense than using someone as a rebound just to fill a gap. Your no contact move might have sparked a little curiosity, though! Her reaching out might mean her feelings for you aren't completely gone. Stay confident, respect your emotional boundaries, and see where it leads. Good luck! 🍀

[Anonymous]

U lost. Move on

[Asker]

How so

[Opinion Owner]

U lost.

[Opinion Owner]

Because of your lack of brains

[Anonymous]

I think it's about the same.