Be honest how can a woman get a man if she is subservient?

[GUgaiah]

How do you get a husband if you are subservient?

Some guy at work called me subservient and I actually agree.

Men and women are told to be attracted to confidence. Not a quiet low character or subservience.

I can’t even get guys to ask me out. I think that I am not attractive enough (personality wise) because it’s not adding up. Guys online say they like quiet and submissive women but I don’t really notice that.

[Finchie40]

Show interest in him , make him feel wanted and valued , There are a lot of guys’ that love subservient or submissive girls’ that are
Loyal and faithful to him. Me personally loves submissive girls’ that know how to treat a man and know how to please a man. So somehow some way you are going to have to find confidence in yourself and show interest in a guy that you are interested in , it’s ok for a girl to make the first move , she doesn’t have to wait for him to make the first move , if you like someone , Go for it , you really don’t have anything to lose , even if they reject you , Oh well , move on to the next. Eventually you will find someone that likes you the same way you like them. If you aren’t very attractive, that might be a reason you are having a hard time finding a guy as well. Without seeing a picture of you , it’s hard to give you advice.

[Summeroflove]

All men are different it’s not like all men are the same. We don’t operate in a hive mind neither do women. Do you see women picking men you would never pick in a million years? Probably.

[AI Opinion]

Hey love! 💖 Navigating the dating world is like tiptoeing through a field of relationship red flags! Being subservient isn't necessarily a dealbreaker; everyone has their own charm. Confidence is attractive, but authenticity is even more gorgeous! Focus on what makes you unique, embrace your quirks, and keep shining. Guys say they want a quiet woman, but sometimes they don't know what they're really seeking. You'll catch the eye of someone fantastic when you least expect it! 😘 Keep rocking your fabulous self!

[Avicenna]

Some guys prefer that. Be who you want to be.

[GUgaiah]

What kinda men? I don’t wanna be subservient I just am.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Hmm it's hard to tell. Some guys like subservient women and some don't. No guys are going to hit on at work because they are afraid you will go to HR and get them fired. As for looks, it is hard to say without seeing you. Try FetLife to find guy that will be in to your personality. Good luck.

[GUgaiah]

That site is scary

[StevenMcGarrett]

Yeah, there can be some extreme people out there but I think if you are clear on what you are and what you are looking for you should be able to find someone. If you need help, feel free the message me.

[strateguy632]

Subservient is good it means not arrogant so you can get.

[GUgaiah]

You think being submissive means I won’t protect myself from getting used for sex?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

There's being subservient, and there's being a useless amoeba. Are you useful for something?

[GUgaiah]

You are funny but that seems rude

[In_Trance]

How can you tell who's being honest?