I am a woman that is willing to submit to a good leader.
but until that person comes along or I found them. I will to do meIt's totally understandable that women don't want to follow a guy who is a poor leader but you have to be very careful if you ever want a leader because a leader doesn't want someone who is an expert in failed relationships or an expert at racking up high body counts. Just like a highly sought after company is not going to hire the person with 50 to 200 short term jobs on their resume.
So your best bet is to focus on making yourself the kind of woman who attracts the leader and then wait for him to find you.
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That's true to a degree. A man has to at least be able to stand on his own two feet if healthy.
That's why is extremely important for a man to work, even if he doesn't make much or less than a woman.
A woman will certainly not respect nor submit to some lazy dude who doesn't do ish. Won't ever happen.
Such men typically just want a hot mommy to take care of them but who they can also have sex with. They mistakenly think "submissive" means "a low standards and spineless slave" so that's what they go for.
They confuse submissive woman as someone to fuck and take care of them, so they don't have to do anything
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Yep, that’s the truth. Man has to be of high character to lead a woman spiritually, emotionally, physically. and provisionally. It comes both with honor and responsibilities.
I think it’s stupid. I don’t want a woman whose a child. I’m not a pedo. I want someone who can take care of herself. Have good integrity. Be independent but also be someone I can share a life with.
Not someone who I need to put on a leash and tell to eat her veggies. I want someone whose a adult.
It goes both ways. I want to have someone who I can teach and enlighten. I couldn’t be with a woman whose too stubborn. But I also want a woman who does the same for me.
Someone who we can grow together. That’s my idea.
Men like that haven't done the mental emotional development to have healthy relationships. Unresolved abandonment issues, lack of sekf awareness, chronically choosing broken women, emotional unintelligence. You won't get better until you do better and choose better. Same goes for women who are in a never-ending cycle.
Sounds like an excuse to me. I would NEVER date a woman who said such a thing. No offense.
I meet many women who essentially say the same thing. What do they all have in common? Thier poor choices. You think any guy that "leads" always knows where he's going? No. But a guy with good character is always doing his best. The only thing a guy has to look forward to in such a woman as you've referenced is she'll blame him for everything that's goes wrong, his fault or not. No thank you! She's dead weight. The guys better off alone.
Good luck.
I don't want a submissive woman, I'm not into dom/sub type relationships, those are for people who aren't mentally the same as their partner.
No reason to dominate a person who already agrees with you on everything.I can't relate, I want a dominant woman. You submissive women usually pretend to be submissive but want to run things behind the scenes anyway.
You sound like a level headed person. You have the right approach and attitude towards D/s aspect of sexuality. Hope you find a Dom who deserves you!
Keep doing yourself with that vibrator. Nobidy cares.
Because some people feel like they are entitled to what they want without actually putting in the work and effort it takes to earn it.
Thats a very important question, thank u for asking it
A confident man doesn’t need to ask or expect a woman to be submissive.
That’s one of the best compliments a girl has ever given me, that I make her feel safe.
i agree with that if your not on your life game, you can’t be a dom.
People want what they haven't earned all the time. It comes from a sense of entitlement.
I have to be submissive and obedient for my customers, so they don’t complain to my boss.
Chad Thundercock will happily dominate you you a few nights a week.
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never had this issue
This is too much pressure on men
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