Im not sure where to turn? I need help please.. ?

[Anonymous]

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together going on 4 years and its been a little crazy. He is 51 now and im 29.. well i mean we have our own kids from previous relationships and he got fixed before i was even born cause he thought he had 2 boys and 1 girl. But after he got his balls cut layin up on the couch to tell hom that girl wasn't his. Sooo... fast forward to me and him. Ok so he was one of my johns , and i had been meeting up with him going on like 4 years and then he asked me to move in. But he has been acting different and shit , he was wanting me to sleep with other men and tell him about it... well IM PREGNANT AND now i ain't sure about what he wants...
. help

[Finchie40]

Are you pregnant with his kid or someone else’s kid? No matter what, you have to tell him the truth and he is going to have to suffer the consequences of whatever happens , , especially if you are pregnant with someone else’s kid? If that’s the case then he shouldn’t of had you act on his weird ass fetish

[Asker]

Yes it isn't his he is fixed and can't have em anymore

[Finchie40]

Tell your boyfriend the truth and end it with him , Go be with the father of the baby instead

[Asker]

No i dont want to

[Finchie40]

Ok well whatever your decision is you should tell your boyfriend the truth , he can’t really be mad at you because he is the one that has that weird fetish and wanted you to fulfill that for him , which in my opinion is messed up , but I will keep my opinions to myself. I am not a cuck so that’s why I think it’s messed up. So again the choice is up to you on whether you want to keep the baby or not , who knows your boyfriend might want you to keep it?

[lightbulb27]

kinda wonder if he is a pimp... if he's charging $, then he has manipulated you into some terrible situation. Otherwise, I have no idea. It's a mess.

I pray for you to seek help from counseling agenies, police, social workers, church or someone that iwll listen and provide guidance so your life and that of your child is not trashed.

[Asker]

No he isn't a pimp . . IM MY OWN PIMP. BEsides that. I used to chatge him money if that's what u mean. And excuse me but jusg because I've made mistakes doesn't mean im TRASH HONEH

[lightbulb27]

I agree. no you aren't trash I did not say that. I'm saying directionally, you could end up there and want you to avoid that. But you have been screwed over in life to end up where you are and got some work to get your life back to order. If you don't, your kid gets your problems multiplied. goal now is ensure the child is cared for and you have support. Do seek Jesus Christ please so your heart is protected.

[lightbulb27]

im glad you are in control of yourself, that's good. in what world are you.. usa, what state?

[Asker]

West virginia

[lightbulb27]

ok, I was there 2 weeks ago. I wish you the best and hope you find solutions, keep asking if don't get good answers. if you have family support, that's most important.

[Asker]

I guess so i just wish i would have something to start out with. But thata on me i guess... im scared and alone

[lightbulb27]

Step one please go to church and get a loving god in your life. People may judge you, Jesus won't. There will be pressures... that's life. You gotta find some people to help. What happened to your family, parents?

Our relative had baby and went online and interacted with other mothers. That's helpful in terms of knowledge, whats coming, shares clothes, etc. She has lots of support. See if there's any such resources in your area where expecting mothers support one another. Nextdoor can be useful at times.

@midnightmoon05 ?

[Asker]

Yes but i need more of family. Cause i dont even have clothes.. and my family disowned me when i had a baby at 14

[lightbulb27]

agree. What do you mean you don't have clothes. clothes for a baby?
Where is the other child?
Do you feel free to reach out to government support, or does your partner put pressure on you? Is he supportive of you?

[lightbulb27]

Id start here... fusioncenter.wv.gov/stop-human-trafficking-wv

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle a little clarity on the chaos that comes in your relationship. 😇 You deserve genuine support and understanding, especially with a baby on the way. His recent behavior and your mixed feelings are understandable. Communication is the magic potion here. Have a heart-to-heart with him, but also remember that you need to surround yourself with supportive friends or family. And never forget, your happiness and wellbeing are the top priority for both you and your little one. You got this! 💖

[Asker]

Thanks so much. I needed to hear this. Question tho, you just trying to make me feel better ot just saying tbat shif

[Anonymous]

If you ain’t sure what he wants, tell him you’re pregnant and hear what he wants.

[Asker]

Well he dont say amything.

[In_Trance]

Jesus

All you had to say was "I'm pregnant"

[Asker]

Well no not reallt

[Asker]

Why u alwaays comment on my shut running uf cick sucker

[MasterKS]

He is asshole and you are brave heart for sure. wow kudos for you!

[Asker]

Thanks so much.

[MasterKS]

@asker may i follow you?

[Asker]

Sure i tbink you might already let me see