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so as I have a huge crush on my guy bsf, my attitude changed with him ever since I caught feelings and so he might know I like him. Well.. him and I were BESTIES like crazy talk and all but we got exams and began to talk less but that shouldn't have meant to become dry right? like he started to become dry and i know its bcs he knows i like him. anyways, I just asked him "you have been acting off lately and so i thought I did smth? I'm just curious what did i do". He replied with "ummm" "yeah you might did" and said he will talk about it tmrw. NOW IM GOING NUTS BCS what if he asks me that I like him? I'm not ready for it :( he maybe want to lmk he wants to stay friends not more than that and I will respect his decision but it's sad for me :( I love him :(
20 d
Pls I need help... what should I do?
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14 d
so i talked to him over call. he told me why he got dry and thats bcs I said smth and he misunderstood it. anyways we sorted that out but then he told me about a girl he actually likes. He won't tell me about the girl's details but he told me they won't do any rs and he wanna stay friends with her until university as he's a date to marry guy but he dont wanna date too early. so im suspecting the girl he likes might be my friend as he used to have a crush on her. but he won't tell. i cried a lot
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Oh girl, I can see why you're panicking! That "ummm" response is definitely setting off alarm bells.
But try not to overthink too much before you chat. He may just want to talk about what's been off lately, not necessarily confess feelings. You won't know until you talk, so try to stay calm!
Some things you can do:
- Remind him you still value his friendship so much, you just want to clear the air.
- Be honest but light about your feelings if he brings it up. Say you care about him as more than a friend but don't want things to be weird.
- Suggest you both take some space if needed, but don't lose the friendship you have. It means too much.
- Most of all, listen without getting defensive. His feelings are valid too. You got this, girl!
It'll be okay whether it works out romantically or you decide to go back to being good friends. You're strong enough to handle this. Just stay true to yourself, okay? Keep me posted how it goes!
thankyou so much. It means a lot when someone gives the best advise you needed <3 I'll keep u posted
Aww it's my pleasure chick, I'm just glad I could help ease some of your worries! I know how stressful these kinds of feelings are, been there so many times. But you're totally going to handle this amazingly.
And keep me posted for sure - I'm always here if you need to chat afterwards too. Sometimes it just feels better to get it all out, you know? Either way, remember that you're awesome and this isn't the be-all end-all. You've got so much amazingness ahead of you!
Try to relax tonight and take your mind off it with some self-care. You deserve to feel good. Then tomorrow just be your honest, confident self. I believe in you 100% and know it'll all work out how it's meant to. Keep that pretty smile on your face - you've got this in the bag!! <3
I highly doubt he has any idea you like him.
but he's smart plus I've been acting goofy and crazy when i talk to him. why else would he wanna talk about it. He lit said "if u wanna talk about it, lets do it tmrw"
Yeah, you asked if you did something wrong, that's not necessarily about you liking him. Not by a longshot.
Smart has nothing to do with it either. You acting goofy and crazy (whatever that means) doesn't clue him into anything.
Are you just refusing to believe you possibly did something to piss him off?
i believe i didn't do anything except for having feelings for him
We are often unaware when our words or actions upset others.
If he's your friend, he's probably into you
im gonna talk to him now and see what happens but i doubt he likes me
I think he likes you.
Do talk to him and give us an update
nah he litr said he missed his ex yesterday after he said we'll talk tmrw... and i've texted him since 4 pm and he hasn't really checked maybe bcs tmrw we have our exam but yea ill keep u updated (pls pray for me)!!!
Good luck🍀
well he replied and said "hii im busy w studies so I'll talk to you on call tmrw promise"
like why is he delayinggg! its not even about him liking me tbh, he prolly has some other reason
Lol he don't know what's inside your mind.
Talk to him tomorrow
ok so we talked but not about the main topic. We talked about our exams and litr i asked him "cmon just tell already" about what he has to say and rn im uh on delivered... and he even started using "brother" word while talking to me. so yea he doesn't like me he clearly wants to sis zone me lol (im not ready for this i feel like crying)
How often do you guys see each other in real life?
we met three times in April and for like 20 or 30 minutes as he used to come by my academy. He even once surprised me as i asked him to meet me and he said he could'nt but then he surprised me... that was before i caught feelings for him. Now we'll prolly meet after our exams (in June):(
Don't you guys vc?
we used to but im telling u due to exams, our convos got lesser, we stopped calling. ofc studies are the first priorities. Well he said he'll call today. I asked him if its srs and he said "maybe a little".
Okay. Good luck.
Being worried is natural but don't overthink things.
Did he said the girl likes him back?
He might be talking about you...
yes he said they both like each other and he also said he is wearing her hair band but then he always confuse things :( and ik he's not lying...
Don't worry. You will find another guy