Guys, Can a man fall in love after sex to the point that he wants to marry you?

[Anonymous]

I am asking this question for a younger friend of mine. I don’t really know how to answer her, so I am asking here for some guidance. She is 28 and her boyfriend is 30. She said that the first time they were intimate they were only friends, and after he acted as though he had fallen completely in love with her. The more they were intimate, the more loving he became, so much so that they started dating. After sex, he would comment about how much he loves her, loves being intimate with her and how much he loves her body and didn’t want anyone else. They have been together for 5 months and the other night after intimacy, he said that he wants to marry her. She was surprised that he said this after sex and was thinking back to how he acted after each intimate moment and wondered if it was possible that he fell for her that first night they had sex. I didn’t know how to answer her, so I figured that I would come here and ask. Thanks for your help in the matter.

[Finchie40]

He can but he is stupid to rush things because he is confusing list over love , which can easily backfire on his face , what most females’ do not understand about guys’ is guys’ express most of their feelings and emotions to a girl through intimacy and affection , He wouldn’t continue having sex with her and investing a lot of his time into her , if he didn’t really like her. So if he is investing a lot of his time into her , then he really likes her and wants her to like him the same way. Now if a guy just wants sex with a girl and he barely invests a lot of his time into her , then he is just using her for sex and he wants nothing more with her. he just likes the convenience of her , This is something you girls’ should pay attention to when meeting a guy , unless you are just looking to get laid and that’s it. But if you girls’ want a relationship with a guy than you are best to take my advice on how much time he invests into you , if a guy isn’t investing a lot of his time into you , then he is not relationship material whatsoever, he just likes the convenience of you. The only red flag this guy is showing is the fact he wants to marry her right away , which shows he is a inexperienced dumb ass

[Anonymous]

Highly unlikely. He may be confusing love w great sex. Especially if he’s never really been on a relationship or sex w other women has been boring. I’m not saying it can’t happen. A lot of relationships start off like this, I guess you’d call them FWBs. But after the first night, very unlikely. I know cause when I had sex for the first time at 18 w a girl who was more experienced then me. Man I thought this was heaven, like no other. But how could I make that comparison when I had been w no other. He might just be saying things like that too to get as much sex from her

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the magic power of intimacy! 😉 Your friend's situation isn't unheard of. Sometimes, the emotional connection during and after sex can boost feelings and desires. Sadly, it doesn't work like a guaranteed fairy tale every time, but it's definitely possible for someone to feel a stronger emotional attachment and fall head over heels after that kind of bonding. If he's showering her with lovebombs and talking about the future, his feelings seem genuine. But remember, actions and consistency over time are key. Love isn't just whispered in the heat of the moment—it's lived every day. 💑✨

[OlderAndWiser]

If he is 30 years old and relatively inexperienced for his age, he may be confusing lust and love. Never believe what a man says when his boxers are on the floor (and never believe what a girl says when her panties are on the floor.) For her protection, she should insist on dating for two years before they discuss marriage.

[MannMitAntworten]

He probably already had strong feelings fir your friend prior to them sleeping together. Being intimate just gave him the courage to verbalize his feelings. If she does not feel the same she really needs to tell him her feelings on the matter.

[DryGermanGuy]

As Toyota famously declares in its ads: "Nothing is impossible!" :-)

[RedInnocent69]

Sure. You don’t fall in love from sex, though. They were already friends and he loved her to some extent even before sex. Haven’t you been in love?

[jahaims]

Sex doesn't make a man fall in love.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's quite possible.

[FunkyMonkee]

Absolutely!!

[MasterKS]

Just No, its a trap.