Do guys want to fall in love too?

[Anonymous]

Most guys are so nonchalant and disinterested. Does anyone want fun simple content love. Baking together, playing together, joking together, writing love notes type love?

I feel like guys just don't have the same loving feelings women do they don't feel love as deeply or at least show affection. At least I've never seen it but once with my grandfather, no other man despite being good people have the romantic spirit and wish for deep unity. It's like guys don't express or dream about being in love the same way women do and It makes me so sad because I want someone who wants a loving happy life who isn't just in it because he could or couldn't he's in it because he wants it.

[Anonymous]

Of course we do. We're just hype-aware of women and when they're just playing games. When we realize that's the case that serious switch gets switched off. And from that point on she just becomes "practice" till we meet a woman who is actually serious. Then we move on to that woman.

[Asker]

But I don't play games and men are never serious with me. 🥲

[Opinion Owner]

Probably one of two things then.
1. He doesn't see that. Are you quiet? Quiet girls generally are narcissistic (not saying you're narcissistic but if you're quiet he can't know you're not).
2. You're simply choosing the wrong men. This is a problem for some guys as well. The choose women who have no interest in being serious about ANY guy. You might just be repeatedly picking the male version of this

[Asker]

1. I've never heard of quiet girls being perceived as narcs but I'm neither quiet not loud. I'm just somewhere in the middle.

2. I don't really choose guys because I honestly can like just about any guy who isn't hideous or a bad person if he talks to me. So I'm not sure

[Opinion Owner]

OK, 2. Explains it. I wish you the best of luck. Life's gonna be an uphill battle for you.

[Asker]

Can you explain how 2 explains it please. It feels like you just said “you're the problem and things will be difficult but I refuse to explain, good luck” I’m not sure what I said wrong?

[Anonymous]

Yes. Finding and connecting to the right person is the issue.

[KrakenAttackin]

Chad won't give you this, ever.

[Asker]

I don't want a chad, I want a loving guy

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... there are plenty of men who want a loving relationship, but they are invisible to you.

[Asker]

I speak to all types of guys some more to less conventionally attractive than others. Any of them is equally likey to catch my eye. None aside from maybe a few attractive assholes ever show interest though. I’d agree with your point if I was rejecting anyone, but I’m not.

[Agent_Elflord]

Plenty of men like that

[Phoenix98]

Of course.