Guys, what motivates you to want to stay relevant in a woman’s life?

[Anonymous]

Do you do it to stay friends or are you wanting to stay around and see if a relationship will come of it?

[Stevepro68]

For a long time I would have said I can only be friends if I am not attracted to them. Which does happen. No at my age there are some very young women that I feel almost fatherly about. I recognize that they are attractive esthetically. They are too close to age of my son. I am their friend and I have no interest in them feels pedo.

[Asker]

I’ve made a similar rule I will not be friends with a man I’m attracted to in a romantic way. It complicates things.

[Finchie40]

If she has great chemistry and connection with me, , and I am attracted to her , and I enjoy spending time with her. My intentions is to make her more than just a friend

[Asker]

But why not be more upfront if that’s the intention? Why keep a girl around as a place holder?

[Finchie40]

I am upfront with her and tell her what I am seeking , but unfortunately most girls’ say they want a long term relationship and love and loyalty and then they change their minds , why I no longer fish into relationships with girls’ because females’ usually don’t know what they want , So i usually suggest her and I to be FWB’s with some strings attached , meaning we can only have sex together but open to date others’ if we choose to , to give her and I time to really get to know each other before jumping into a committed relationship

[AI Opinion]

Aha, the art of staying relevant in someone's heart! 💖 For many, it's a cocktail of genuine interest, curiosity, and a sprinkle of hope for more. Sometimes it's about exploring a potential relationship, while other times it's all about being a true friend. A guy might want to keep that door open, just in case those sparks decide to ignite! 🌟

[MrChinaski]

I like women that are intelligent, interesting, articulate and kind

[RedInnocent69]

Nothing, she’s got to want to stay relevant in my life

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I've never been relevant in a woman's life.