This is what I find matters the most in a woman as a White man:
1. Looks (She must be your type physically, attractive face and for body minimum to be in shape body and decent height 5'4 to 5'9. She doesn't need big boobs or a nice ass or curvy body so long as she has a pretty face and is in shape.
2. Personality. She must be someone you genuinely like in terms of personality/soul, someone you are compatible with and have a connection with. Things that are also with personality are religion, morals, values, world views/political views and intelligence. Loyalty is also in this category.
3. Purity and Worth (Not have been with previously or find a particular race or person that I view as inferior, ugly and gross as attractive)
4. No mental illness
Number 1 gets your foot in the door, number 3 is a must or else it's a dealbreaker, number 2 ensures relationship quality and whether the relationships lasts at all and number 4 can be a dealbreaker depending on the type of illness and it's severity.
Number 5: no STD that can seriously damage your health and life.
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That's a pretty good list. It's truly a shame that most women don't meet that standard, and that most men don't meet the male equivalent of that standard/don't deserve the women that do.
You agree with the male point of view of that list?
Of course. It's basically the same standard I had for men, except of course the physical area is a little different. Also I'm way more strict with the purity and value thing, but it's a good start.
Cool, thank you for your opinion and feedback.
No problem!
So glad I found a boyfriend to look past your list because I am hardly any of these things. I have a mental illness (schizophrenia), don't have a fit or shapely body, and not pure. I've been with a guy before him.
Yeah my idea of purity is not having been with a guy, it's aguy I would view as ugly, gross like Pete Davidson.
I would pick a 7/10 girl that has been with 100 good looking guys over a 10/10 girl that has been with a guy that looks like Pete Davidson.
That's my definition of worth and purity.