Are you looking forward to having kids?

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sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Personally, the way the world is and so many weird and dangerous people out there now - I wouldn't bring an innocent child into this world 🌎.
Having a baby who is being watched by its parents until she 5 is good. But as soon as they start school and you have to leave their sight, anxiety sets in because you don't know what's going to happen to them.
Kidnapping, a school shooting, bullies, mean teachers, creepy children around them, falling down and getting hurt. That's something to think 🤔 about.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Im looking forward to having more. I already have 5

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Never had kids, most likely never will.
I have moments where i think i would like to have a kid, but i don’t think that those moments would outweigh the number of times i regretted having kids if i did. Ell oh ell!

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I would like to, with the right person

AviatorTom · Answer

Not any more. My 3 kids are grown, and I'm proud of them.

When I was younger, before we had kids, I DID look forward to having kids, with a little trepidation, not knowing what to expect. Kids do take over your life.

HawkPerception · Answer

Yeah I really do look forward to being a father one day (if I'm lucky enough to eventually be one).

Screenwriter · Answer

Already had mine. For a long time after I was married I was NOT interested in having a child. Took me 12 years: getting more comfortable with myself, being in a good financial position, etc.

At best, the right place, right time and right partner carry a lot of weight in the decision to parent.

osmanthus · Answer

I'd like to think I could, someday... but there are barriers. Child bearing isn't for everybody.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I have 2 amazing kids. 😊 before all that happened… it was never in my mind.  had them so grandpa can become great grandpa. So it worked out.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Too ''late'' now at my age.

Anyhow: I never wished for or planned for the two I had. But they were very welcome.

I now am busy with taking care for e step-grandson. Kids are inspiring - but not a necessity.

alice55 · Answer

I love kids so yea it would be fun plus theyre funny but I'm not looking forward to be pregnant at all so I'm not gonna have kid for a long while for sure xD

SotiCoto · Answer

I spawned once. Wasn't really intentional, but didn't apply any effort to avoid it either.
I didn't have much to do with her upbringing since her mother divorced me. She is an adult now. I barely speak to her.
This is fine.

fonduegirl · Answer

Absolutely not. I'm broke. My body lacks vitamins. The only thing I'm looking forward to is an okayish life, filled with happiness and me babying me because my parents sucked

EmmaMary · Answer

We already have our two planned children... Thank you @coachtanthony

serious · Answer

No, I am not looking forward to marry nor having kids.

LazerBean · Answer

Yeah, pretty much lol it's so much fun without them, but I know it will still be fun with them too.

BCRanger10 · Answer

I already have three. My wife and I want more.

Staximus · Answer

I never had any because I'm a worrier. I know I would worry about those little fuckers too much. Plus heart problems run on one side of my family and cancer is rampant on the other.

loveyouoak · Answer

No, I am not. I never want to have kids. I am an Antinatalist.

Chocolatetwopointtwo · Answer

hell no, not gonna be any kids from me in this world

Babygirl_S · Answer

Yes and no. Kids of a shitty dad are bound to be shitty. Kids of a superior dad are bound to be good. Depends on whose kids I’ll have.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Who the fuck would want to bring a child into the world we’re living in? In 2005, I could see maybe wanting to have kids. In 2025? That’s crazy work

Simslover92 · Answer

I'm not so sure anymore.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I’ve had a full litter so I’m ok with staying with those numbers at my age, but I wouldn’t be upset if I had more

DishLady · Answer

Been there, done that...

Anonymous · Answer

I have a child. I loved being pregnant despite the hardships.

Anonymous · Answer

I have one son and I don't want more kids. If I got pregnant anyway, I'd probably abort it. I'm protecting myself all the time though.

LightingBugg · Answer

Yes, but only with certain someone that I love. I love him with all my heart and he knows it.

Guanfei · Answer

If I could, I would already have a couple of them. But life decided it won't happen.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know is it possible for me, but I'd like to have kids someday.

BriGinny · Answer

No. Especially not with current events.

YourExLover69 · Answer

Yes within 1 year if given opportunity otherwise after 1 year I won't.

katiesmuff · Answer

I think four is enough!

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I don't think so.

lyrem04 · Answer

Yes! I can’t wait to be a mom

naartjie · Answer

Super excited just not for giving birth

justarandomperson_55 · Answer

Yeah, I'm kind of looking forward to having a loving wife and then kids eventually.

Miristheiss · Answer

Already have two.

Shiprex · Answer

Having kids to do what?

Shark_61695 · Answer

For dinner?

Jennz6 · Answer

Most definitely 💯

Dorothy90 · Answer

I’m never having any.

Wiredone · Answer

I have my kids. We don't want any more.

Blackcat1952 · Answer

Not yet maybe when I retire

Beckybooboo · Answer

Very much.

exitseven · Answer

I already had some

jamesgoldman · Answer

Not happening

TheoreticallyGreat · Answer

I am yes.

shortster · Answer

Since I was 8.

ambitious_male · Answer

Yes Sir.

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