Do you think true charm is something we are born with or is it a quality we acquire through life?

[thegreenyogi]

[Zack-Bann]

It’s acquired.


There is no scientific study that can pinpoint the genetic predisposition to being charming
(Yet)


I think if a person grows up surrounded by people who offer the right example they will internalize the qualities that make a person charming


Alternatively they can lack those qualities if they grew up with dull people


But if they were to move out and re learn the basics of being charming it can be developed
And it sticks

[SamIam96]

Interesting question!

I think we're all born with a certain amount. I'm sure we've all met someone who is charming at a surprisingly young age.

I also believe it is acquired over time. I've never been great, but I feel like I'm better now than I was in my teens. With some work and a little luck, I will continue to improve.

[SamIam96]

Thank you for the MHO.

[thegreenyogi]

Welcome!

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, let me sprinkle some flirty charm insight your way! True charm is a delightful cocktail of both nature and nurture. 🥳 While some folks naturally exude charisma from day one, others fine-tune their charm game over time through experiences and learning. It's like mastering a dance – practice and personality both play a part. So, whether you're a natural charmer or a late bloomer, you can always boost your charm offensive. 😏

[Summeroflove]

Most of what people are is determined by life choices. Sure, people are born with genetics. People are born into situations that can be really good or absolutely horrible. As many things people cannot control people can choose who they become.

People can choose to get ahead by being honest. Hardworking. Having honor. Integrity. Being genuine and authentic. Or people could lie cheat steal and everything else to get ahead for a while until they reap what they sow.

[Simslover92]

I think some people naturally have the gift of charm and therefore are born with it, while others acquire it over time.

[Communicationisking]

Both are possible but either way once you know you have charm it can be a curse as much as it can be a blessing... use your power wisely and don't abuse it

[Shiprex]

there's more of an environmental cause of this trait. One grows up around charming people so one can learn to spot the cues and strategies used by those people who are successful at it.

[Tarifa]

Some people are true magnets and have a natural charm that makes them unique.

[Nikki1989]

I think it is an innate predisposition more than anything else.

[beenherebefore]

I believe it's a quality we acquire through life and from personal experiences.

[slatyb]

No, it's learned. I was awkward. Now I'm outgoing and charming.

[exitseven]

We are born with it. Even little kids have some innate ability to get people to like them

[Dongie]

Probably is a genetic trait that is cultivated or dampened during development.

[eagle1951]

I think you perfecct it through life, so you are born with some

[Anonymous]

I think it can be a combination of both.

[WonderingManII]

Born with.

[wolverin38]

with life