What captivates your attention and leaves you breathless in a man?

[McSteamy]

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5 mo

Gag is now full of stupid people

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Unaffected kindness and patience

Competence

Growth mindset

[Bloodparadise]

His physique, manliness, personality

[Babygirl_S]

Attention? When he’s kissing someone else mainly in order to get my attention. For example, I’m not really attracted to him so he tries all of his tricks to make me look at him. If he’s really so attracted to her, why doesn’t he close his eyes while kissing her? Why is he dying to know my reaction? Breathless? The desire they have to abuse me scares me so much that I feel like I’m gasping for air. Maybe the experiences could be different around the types of men I was interacting with in college (mainly white) but I’m surrounded by Indians and this is exactly how they behave. I have given chances to 3/10 boys who couldn’t even talk properly and they acted like they were the prize. I will stay away from Black and Indian boys as they try their best to ruin my mental health. Slavery messed with their heads so much that they’re dying for the approval of their ex-owners aka white girls and ready to go to any lengths to do that. Marrying a white dude who is mentally stable looks like peace to me-something I’ve never felt in my life tbh.

[anon1903]

When he passionately talks about a subject. And his small waist

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Nothing, which is why I don’t date men

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely NOTHING.

[Chocolatetwopointthr]

nothing, men ain't all that